"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Deeptan tanning pills - anyone tried this?

Shiftkey

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LOL I also got Frosted Opal, but my ancestery is more than one of the selections so I don't know how accurate it is. I also have hazel eyes, which isn't a selection. The best part about tanning at the salon for awhile was that it raised my sun tolerance greatly. I can be outside for over an hour, no sunblock, and I won't notice a difference. And that's over a year and a half since I've gone to a salon. Before I tanned at a salon I would burn in 30 minutes. My skin is now really white (since I haven't tanned recently), but it's not as pale looking as it used to be.

If I spend about 25-30 mins a day running around outside, it takes about 2 weeks for me to see any change in my skin tone, and then it usually peaks and I don't get any darker. Which means I'm no longer ghost white, but have a healthier looking "whiteness" if you know what I mean.
That sounds normal. If you want to get darker, you need to stay outside longer as your sun tolerance increases.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I like how the link on the deeptan site with "contact us" is just a picture.
 

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Hey Shiftkey, those pills still look enticing, suspect as they may be. It would be great if you could take them for a couple weeks and report back :)
 
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