"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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deeply depressed girl, rejects my date requests, principle still applies?

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one of my (my only plate) is deeply depressed, and cancelled our date on thursday. i pointed out in one of our text exchanges that she seemed lost and deflated on the phone (when we talked), that's when she told me she was depressed and it's the reason she's cancelling our date.

irrespective of this, if a girl FEELS attraction no matter her state of mind she'll still want to see you right?

i thought it was a crock of sh1t originally and she just didn't feel it and making an excuse for not wanting to see me, but it appears she doesn't want to see anyone at all.

i did call her out in the last text to say that if she didn't 'feel' it then cool i respect her decision even though i think it's a mistake but it's her choice and that i hope she wouldn't regret her decision when she's lost me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you want to do? Save a h0 and wait for her. Your mistake is only having one girl. You need to wait to let her figure out her own problems. When she does she'll contact you. In the meantime get some more girls.
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
What do you want to do? Save a h0 and wait for her. Your mistake is only having one girl. You need to wait to let her figure out her own problems. When she does she'll contact you. In the meantime get some more girls.
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This.

Spinning plates is the only solution.

She can save the therapy talk for her friends, her problems are not your problems, and if you let them become your problems you are heading for headaches and friend zones.

Let her be and she will come when ready, in the mean time string her along with just enough contact (minimal) to maintian interest and go and pursue other women. If you had other women you would not care about this event.

I was flaked on last night. When I got the flake text, I just lol'd.

Flaking should be expected, it is part of the game.
 
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