"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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deeply depressed girl, rejects my date requests, principle still applies?

big weezy

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one of my (my only plate) is deeply depressed, and cancelled our date on thursday. i pointed out in one of our text exchanges that she seemed lost and deflated on the phone (when we talked), that's when she told me she was depressed and it's the reason she's cancelling our date.

irrespective of this, if a girl FEELS attraction no matter her state of mind she'll still want to see you right?

i thought it was a crock of sh1t originally and she just didn't feel it and making an excuse for not wanting to see me, but it appears she doesn't want to see anyone at all.

i did call her out in the last text to say that if she didn't 'feel' it then cool i respect her decision even though i think it's a mistake but it's her choice and that i hope she wouldn't regret her decision when she's lost me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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What do you want to do? Save a h0 and wait for her. Your mistake is only having one girl. You need to wait to let her figure out her own problems. When she does she'll contact you. In the meantime get some more girls.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
What do you want to do? Save a h0 and wait for her. Your mistake is only having one girl. You need to wait to let her figure out her own problems. When she does she'll contact you. In the meantime get some more girls.
This.

Spinning plates is the only solution.

She can save the therapy talk for her friends, her problems are not your problems, and if you let them become your problems you are heading for headaches and friend zones.

Let her be and she will come when ready, in the mean time string her along with just enough contact (minimal) to maintian interest and go and pursue other women. If you had other women you would not care about this event.

I was flaked on last night. When I got the flake text, I just lol'd.

Flaking should be expected, it is part of the game.
 
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