"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here is an intresting concept. One night at the pub, this lass mentions a lad she refers to as "sort of seeing".

Now, of course in my don't give a damn, arrogant cavalier DJ attitude, i assume it means "I am single, but you have competition". I enjoy a challenge so I reckon should give it a shot. Try and get the lass on my own... show her how awesome I am, and then drop her like a disease. See if she contacts me...

How would you responde to her sort of seeing someone?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've never tried this, but someone once said to say "don't worry, I'm not the jealous type"

lol. I think that's funny.

Anyway, I'd just ignore that comment.....but be EXTRA sure that you don't get emotionally attached quickly.
 
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Oh, no danger of that. But yeh, I did treat it with indifference at the time. Could just leave it. Half a mind to challenge her. Say something like either the other guy was too much of a whoose to make a move. Or she is a cow for holding out for better.

Saying these things would make the other fella seem insecure, and also reject her a little to make her feel like she wants to prove that she isn't a cow.Also could open a conversation on what she would be looking for in someone better. Would open some leagues of kino.

Meh - I'll wing it
 
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