"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Porky04

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Here is an intresting concept. One night at the pub, this lass mentions a lad she refers to as "sort of seeing".

Now, of course in my don't give a damn, arrogant cavalier DJ attitude, i assume it means "I am single, but you have competition". I enjoy a challenge so I reckon should give it a shot. Try and get the lass on my own... show her how awesome I am, and then drop her like a disease. See if she contacts me...

How would you responde to her sort of seeing someone?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ARrocket

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I've never tried this, but someone once said to say "don't worry, I'm not the jealous type"

lol. I think that's funny.

Anyway, I'd just ignore that comment.....but be EXTRA sure that you don't get emotionally attached quickly.
 

Porky04

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Oh, no danger of that. But yeh, I did treat it with indifference at the time. Could just leave it. Half a mind to challenge her. Say something like either the other guy was too much of a whoose to make a move. Or she is a cow for holding out for better.

Saying these things would make the other fella seem insecure, and also reject her a little to make her feel like she wants to prove that she isn't a cow.Also could open a conversation on what she would be looking for in someone better. Would open some leagues of kino.

Meh - I'll wing it
 
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