"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Decode a Facebook Message?

HeyPachuco!

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I log on to check my inbox and get a Friend Request Pending at 12:30am GMT

Inbox Message:

Random Girl: Hey, are you from ******* (My Hometown)

Me: Yep I am

Random Girl: Do you speak Portuguese?, did you ever meet up with anyonefrom ******* (Her Hometown)

Me: Yup, and yeah in like 2008 ?

Random Girl: A girl called ****** (her name) , and you brought one of your mates down aswelll for my friend?

Me: Lol, wheres this going?

Random Girl: Lol Haven't you clocked on yet?

Me: Tell me what we've done

Random Girl: F*cked

Now, wondering who the hell this is, I go onto chat to see if she's there. Shes on.

Me: Whats you're number, It's vanished :)

Random Girl: So you totally do not remember me?

Me: Give me you're number and we'll talk

Random Girl: Gives number

Few things strange here, she randomly knows where I am from, spot on. Then asks if I have ever met up with her, in her hometown? I've only met one girl from her hometown, but she came down to my hometown - Now I do not recognize this girl from adams! shes a HB6 with a gorgeous body.

Can anyone decode this for what it is? Is this a trick?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HeyPachuco!

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Lion said:
Ex-gf, stalker?
I highly doubt it has something to do with my ex, nothing in comparison. I have been getting some Private Witheld numbers calling my phone recently, I actually look at the phone when they're calling and it rings out for atleast 5minutes maximum.

I do not have voicemail. I've done everything nerdy to check out this girl, she's a bartender from the looks of things, with a great body but a not-so nice face, she definetly gets around. Something extremely strange in all of this, since she asked where I was from, exactly that aswell.

I remember one of my mates going there, booked a hotel and met up with some girls in a club, but I doubt he would do something like this, no need. Unless hes trying to hook me up, but he isnt a friend of this girl nor does he know her.

Rekon I should ring her?
 

HeyPachuco!

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man, guys I need you're help! urgently

Whats are some good comebacks? Me and this girl where habving playfull fun on Facebook, shes just upped the levels now by speaking in a 3-person situation:

I said she got the sack, broke up with her on inbox, then she said on my WALL - "what do you mean I got the sack! we weren't together in the first place...! "

No doubt for the nosey onlookers who don't know this is playfull banter will lower my value lol, how can I up the value with a comeback?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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