"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Decision to Make

Hockey Playa

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This girl im going out with, is leaving for 3 months,on student exchange. Its been a big lump in my throat because, we've just recently started going out, but it feels so right with this one. She had already made the commitments to this trip before, we started going out, and she says she wishes she didnt have to go, but she cant get out of it. She told me she doesnt want this to end our relationship, but honestly i dont know what the hell im gonna do by myself for 3 months. We also agreed not to talk about it because we wanted to our enjoy our time now together. Its been bugging me so much, because i know if i get too attached it will hurt even more when she leaves. How should i approach this situation? Should i honestly try and make it work, and just not go out and party with other chicks ( im in HS btw)? Should i say were on break while shes away? should i just end it now before i get too attached? Should i bug her about it jokingly, any advice DJS
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Taviii

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Man if you want to be a Don Juan you cant wait 3 months on a girl!!:down:
 

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i dont care that much about being a DJ i think i may like this one, i used the DJ skills to get her, but do you think i would look like a puss, staying loyal for 3 months doing nothing? While she could be ****ing guys in another country..
 

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Well if you do stay and wait make sure she’s gives you a hell of a reward when she comes back. :cheer:
 

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ONEITIS.............?



Distance will make her want you even more, because she will miss you. Enless, she finds another guy in the new school........:crackup: .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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