"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This girl im going out with, is leaving for 3 months,on student exchange. Its been a big lump in my throat because, we've just recently started going out, but it feels so right with this one. She had already made the commitments to this trip before, we started going out, and she says she wishes she didnt have to go, but she cant get out of it. She told me she doesnt want this to end our relationship, but honestly i dont know what the hell im gonna do by myself for 3 months. We also agreed not to talk about it because we wanted to our enjoy our time now together. Its been bugging me so much, because i know if i get too attached it will hurt even more when she leaves. How should i approach this situation? Should i honestly try and make it work, and just not go out and party with other chicks ( im in HS btw)? Should i say were on break while shes away? should i just end it now before i get too attached? Should i bug her about it jokingly, any advice DJS
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Man if you want to be a Don Juan you cant wait 3 months on a girl!!:down:
 
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i dont care that much about being a DJ i think i may like this one, i used the DJ skills to get her, but do you think i would look like a puss, staying loyal for 3 months doing nothing? While she could be ****ing guys in another country..
 
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Well if you do stay and wait make sure she’s gives you a hell of a reward when she comes back. :cheer:
 
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ONEITIS.............?



Distance will make her want you even more, because she will miss you. Enless, she finds another guy in the new school........:crackup: .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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