I posted about the same girl under the "good move?" post earlier. So I went out with her again...not sure how to read her. Tonight was more first date like than any before, yet when i was out with her and her friends on Friday (she was more sober then!) she was acting like I was her bf practically. She was passed out on my couch but still wanted to drive home even though she has tomorrow off, yet the other dates have ended with her staying..its like she seriously backed off, i dont think it really has anything to do with my issues I posted in the "Good move?" post. Maybe her friends made me out to be a player? Its how shes acting..she did fall asleep wrapped around me..she did kiss me but i had to make a point of it and I got the vibe that she was just going with it, which previously she was really into it.
Last week she was wanting to know what I was doing for NYE, and inviting me to join in on whatever she does. We were talking and i mentioned I dont know whats going on yet and nothing..to the point that she said its no big deal not going out all. Yet she was still out with me. There was one conversation that stood out and she seemed very keen on, was that people around here are more focused on hooking up, it seemed out of place. I made the mistake of replying to a text she sent of saying that i really like being around her and for her to have a good NYE..she ignored that part of the txt of me telling her i like being around her and just responded to the rest. Not sure how to proceed with her.
This brings up the major problem I deal with, I deal with girls all the time often as good looking or better than this but the ones I want to be around never seem to want to stick around me yet I have others chasing me down for months. I just dont get it and its starting to eat at me badly.
Last week she was wanting to know what I was doing for NYE, and inviting me to join in on whatever she does. We were talking and i mentioned I dont know whats going on yet and nothing..to the point that she said its no big deal not going out all. Yet she was still out with me. There was one conversation that stood out and she seemed very keen on, was that people around here are more focused on hooking up, it seemed out of place. I made the mistake of replying to a text she sent of saying that i really like being around her and for her to have a good NYE..she ignored that part of the txt of me telling her i like being around her and just responded to the rest. Not sure how to proceed with her.
This brings up the major problem I deal with, I deal with girls all the time often as good looking or better than this but the ones I want to be around never seem to want to stick around me yet I have others chasing me down for months. I just dont get it and its starting to eat at me badly.
. I don't think this girl has any certain "trait" that is bad or that I am really screwing up. I am just frustrated as it seems momentum was on my side so I was trying to figure out her behavior. She was coming on pretty strong and appears to be backing off, but still wants to see me. After some clear thinking I'm guessing her friends may have something to do with it and she may concerned that I am just out for a piece of ass.