Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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decipher her voice message she left me & what should I do from now?

montybrown

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Checked my voice mail and got this message from a girl I've been talking too:

Hey uh sorry i missed your call, um well how to put this the best way, I'm going through so many issues right now that i feel its best we don't talk for a while, it's not you, i know it sounds cliche but it's not you....I have a lot of figuring things out to do and I cannot be wasting time and having stupid problems with other people and yeah well please don't call me back, please don't text me or anything and um...whenever i want to talk to you ill give you a call but respect my choice and I'm sorry that i just have a lot of shyt on my plate right now and i just need to cut back on a lot of things so just don't call me anymore ok, bye.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ouch. I think she told you what to do, so do that.
 

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dont call me anymore because my new boyfriend is getting mad about it and he never leaves, ever.
 

Jitterbug

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You're *this* close to getting a restraining order against you.
 

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Unless you're stalking and neglected to tell us about it, it really isn't you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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montybrown said:
Checked my voice mail and got this message from a girl I've been talking too:

Hey uh sorry i missed your call, um well how to put this the best way, I'm going through so many issues right now that i feel its best we don't talk for a while, it's not you, i know it sounds cliche but it's not you....I have a lot of figuring things out to do and I cannot be wasting time and having stupid problems with other people and yeah well please don't call me back, please don't text me or anything and um...whenever i want to talk to you ill give you a call but respect my choice and I'm sorry that i just have a lot of shyt on my plate right now and i just need to cut back on a lot of things so just don't call me anymore ok, bye.
I've had a dame to that to me monty bro, I feel ya, man. Funny thing is, she sees me in a better position now, and she follows me around these days, and I have to tell her to please back off. http://youtube.com/watch?v=9JDTAqsMNEM
 
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