"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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deciding if she is worth going out with?

Spp27

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thanks to this site I have bee getting better thanks.

first off I know a girl I am interested in but from talking to her shows some red flags.

-she drinks a lot.
- at one time was going out with a guy and dating another guy
- pretty shure she has slut face
- works but makes little money
- goes to lots of parties
- openly talks about sex stuff and related
- has had many boyfriends
- goes on holidays with her friends to other countries
- has re occurring cold sore on her lip says she got it from a dirty glass lol
- constantly gaing weight

I have pretty much givin up on her due to these resaons.
what do you guys think?

and what are some bad signs that she not worth it that you guys have seen let me know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Next.
 

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Spp27 said:
thanks to this site I have bee getting better thanks.

first off I know a girl I am interested in but from talking to her shows some red flags.

-she drinks a lot.
- at one time was going out with a guy and dating another guy
- pretty shure she has slut face
- works but makes little money
- goes to lots of parties
- openly talks about sex stuff and related
- has had many boyfriends
- goes on holidays with her friends to other countries
- has re occurring cold sore on her lip says she got it from a dirty glass lol
- constantly gaing weight

I have pretty much givin up on her due to these resaons.
what do you guys think?

and what are some bad signs that she not worth it that you guys have seen let me know.
That's all you need right there. Next her.
 

astrn

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Dont waste your time. Look for high interested girls in you!
 

GS750

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I'll give it a shot...

Spp27 said:
thanks to this site I have bee getting better thanks.

first off I know a girl I am interested in but from talking to her shows some red flags. It's good you recognize these. You shouldn't settle for low quality girls

-she drinks a lot. ...and probably causes lots of drama when she's drunk
- at one time was going out with a guy and dating another guy Can't get enough male attention
- pretty shure she has slut face If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck...
- works but makes little money Not a dealbreaker. But does she have a future?
- goes to lots of parties Party girl. Again...booze and drama
- openly talks about sex stuff and related Attention wh0re. And a c0ck tease
- has had many boyfriends Branch swinger and loves male attention
- goes on holidays with her friends to other countries If she's broke, how does she afford this?
- has re occurring cold sore on her lip says she got it from a dirty glass lol That rules out a BJ. Forever.
- constantly gaing weight Doesn't take care of herself

I have pretty much givin up on her due to these resaons.
what do you guys think? I think you should delete her number

and what are some bad signs that she not worth it that you guys have seen let me know. All of the above
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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your mind: "lol fck this look at these negatives i'm out"
your emotions: "hm but she's pretty and i like her i'd still like to see her"

=> you know which one you have to listen to.
 

Spp27

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yeah using my brain. she just had the hot factor. that's about it.
 

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best of both worlds:

pump but don't get emotionally involved.
 
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