"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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deciding if she is worth going out with?

Spp27

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thanks to this site I have bee getting better thanks.

first off I know a girl I am interested in but from talking to her shows some red flags.

-she drinks a lot.
- at one time was going out with a guy and dating another guy
- pretty shure she has slut face
- works but makes little money
- goes to lots of parties
- openly talks about sex stuff and related
- has had many boyfriends
- goes on holidays with her friends to other countries
- has re occurring cold sore on her lip says she got it from a dirty glass lol
- constantly gaing weight

I have pretty much givin up on her due to these resaons.
what do you guys think?

and what are some bad signs that she not worth it that you guys have seen let me know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Next.
 

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Spp27 said:
thanks to this site I have bee getting better thanks.

first off I know a girl I am interested in but from talking to her shows some red flags.

-she drinks a lot.
- at one time was going out with a guy and dating another guy
- pretty shure she has slut face
- works but makes little money
- goes to lots of parties
- openly talks about sex stuff and related
- has had many boyfriends
- goes on holidays with her friends to other countries
- has re occurring cold sore on her lip says she got it from a dirty glass lol
- constantly gaing weight

I have pretty much givin up on her due to these resaons.
what do you guys think?

and what are some bad signs that she not worth it that you guys have seen let me know.
That's all you need right there. Next her.
 

astrn

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Dont waste your time. Look for high interested girls in you!
 

GS750

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I'll give it a shot...

Spp27 said:
thanks to this site I have bee getting better thanks.

first off I know a girl I am interested in but from talking to her shows some red flags. It's good you recognize these. You shouldn't settle for low quality girls

-she drinks a lot. ...and probably causes lots of drama when she's drunk
- at one time was going out with a guy and dating another guy Can't get enough male attention
- pretty shure she has slut face If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck...
- works but makes little money Not a dealbreaker. But does she have a future?
- goes to lots of parties Party girl. Again...booze and drama
- openly talks about sex stuff and related Attention wh0re. And a c0ck tease
- has had many boyfriends Branch swinger and loves male attention
- goes on holidays with her friends to other countries If she's broke, how does she afford this?
- has re occurring cold sore on her lip says she got it from a dirty glass lol That rules out a BJ. Forever.
- constantly gaing weight Doesn't take care of herself

I have pretty much givin up on her due to these resaons.
what do you guys think? I think you should delete her number

and what are some bad signs that she not worth it that you guys have seen let me know. All of the above
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lolapo

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your mind: "lol fck this look at these negatives i'm out"
your emotions: "hm but she's pretty and i like her i'd still like to see her"

=> you know which one you have to listen to.
 

Spp27

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yeah using my brain. she just had the hot factor. that's about it.
 

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best of both worlds:

pump but don't get emotionally involved.
 
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