“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you've read my other post about 5 date rule or whatever your up to speed. I'm quite the character with chicks here, anyways....

This girl i like ALOT was involved with this dude before she met me, then i met her and we messed around and hung out almost daily and we're planning on going to Red Lobster on thursday. So, she never openly complains about this dude, only when i ask about how things are going (a topic i try to avoid).

Anyways, my friend Kay (a guy) asked her friend (a girl) what she thought about me and she said that the girl likes me alot but she's kinda in a situation right now where she's confused whether she wants to be with me or with the other dude who's she's having problems with. I asked her what's troubling her with dude and she said that he doesn't call ehr back alot when he's supposed to and "some guys just take advantage of the fact that a girl will be there for you" and shiit.

So what should I do for game in this situation? I was thinking of knocking the guy down every once and awhile (but not all the time like im desperate or something) and show her a good time by taking her out on thursday.

But maybe I need something more, like conversation stuff (I ask about her passions and ****t right now to make her 'feel') but I think I need more. Some game. Some things to do. Some things to say. Help out fellow Dj's!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do NOT bring up the other guy. That's mistake #1. It really shouldn't be your problem. Your job is to attract her, not to make her lose attraction to him. You can do that in a thousand subtle ways. One thing you're also doing is spending too much time with her. She sees you as convenient, you're around when she can't do something with the other guy. I'm sure that's not where you want to be. Make other plans with another woman if possible, if not, then with your friends, do not invite her along. Give her the chance to think about you while you're out having fun. What you can "do" is do less with her, and give her the chance to appreciate you more.

I know it feels weird, but you have to pull back to make her want you more. You can't make her want you more by smothering her with your attention. Of course you take the risk of her spending the time with the other guy, but if you're playing your game right, and plant the right seeds, she'll be thinking about you anyway.

HTH,

Romeo
 
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Originally posted by MRomeo99
Do NOT bring up the other guy. That's mistake #1. It really shouldn't be your problem. Your job is to attract her, not to make her lose attraction to him. You can do that in a thousand subtle ways. One thing you're also doing is spending too much time with her. She sees you as convenient, you're around when she can't do something with the other guy. I'm sure that's not where you want to be. Make other plans with another woman if possible, if not, then with your friends, do not invite her along. Give her the chance to think about you while you're out having fun. What you can "do" is do less with her, and give her the chance to appreciate you more.

I know it feels weird, but you have to pull back to make her want you more. You can't make her want you more by smothering her with your attention. Of course you take the risk of her spending the time with the other guy, but if you're playing your game right, and plant the right seeds, she'll be thinking about you anyway.

HTH,

Romeo
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I don't think you're making the right call in this situation. It sounds like the whole reason he's gotten her interest in the first place is because she's sick of the other guy not calling her back or being available to her. She feels like the other guy just isn't interested enough.

This is a subject that has never been covered properly on this site. Just as you can't be too eager and pushy, you can't be too distant and unavailable. Just as you guys have that inner radar that tells you that if a girl is too unavailable that she isn't interested...girls have that same radar. You have to show enough interest without coming on TOO strong. You have to find a balance of showing interest while not seeming desperate. If he becomes more unavailable and distant she will end up sticking with the unavailable and distant guy that she's familiar with or just finding someone else altogether.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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