"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Decided to stop seeing a hb9, quick story on looks...

gimmeyofonenumba

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Looks simply arent everything when it comes to women. This girl is a solid 9, turned heads and drunk dudes chasing her, literally got me into physical confrontations. With that said, she is very nice, socal,lovable,etc. She is way to materialistic. We still talk from time to time, and she ried to spark my interest by telling me all theese cool vacations she has planned, a new bmw she just got,etc. Zero education, zero self discipline. Just no admirable qualities outside of her looks and charm. That line "what else do you have going for you other than looks?" is not just a pickup line, it is absolutely integral. My point is, you could find a hb10 and still end up settling, if she is an undesriable person on the inside.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well if you notice, most players end up settling down with 7s and 8s with GOOD personalities and who actually bring something to a relationship rather than some smoking hot 10 who has no personality and basically nothing but her looks. People new to the game always wanna bag a 10 but after awhile most people realize that what's inside also counts for alot.
 

Alex DeLarge

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I don't even bother chasing any girls with no personality. I'll go on a few dates to get to know them, but once I find out they have nothing going on inside their head they're out.

Looks do matter when it comes to the way you present yourself and dress though. No girl wants to date a dude that has no style and proper hygiene. I'm not saying you have to be a total metrosexual, but just have a sense of fashion.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It works both ways, too. A good looking guy with no personality will only end up attracting the kind of person you described. Then, they'll both end up complaining about how stupid and worthless the other person is - without realizing that they're the same way.

Looks aren't everything. Not for them, and not for you to attract any decent girls. You'll just get a lot of shallow blondie ho's, if thats all you focus on.
 

DonGorgon

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Looks simply arent everything when it comes to women. This girl is a solid 9, turned heads and drunk dudes chasing her, literally got me into physical confrontations. With that said, she is very nice, socal,lovable,etc. She is way to materialistic. We still talk from time to time, and she ried to spark my interest by telling me all theese cool vacations she has planned, a new bmw she just got,etc. Zero education, zero self discipline. Just no admirable qualities outside of her looks and charm. That line "what else do you have going for you other than looks?" is not just a pickup line, it is absolutely integral. My point is, you could find a hb10 and still end up settling, if she is an undesriable person on the inside.

true but most men want to F as many hot chick as fast and cheaply as they can ..all the emotional stuff if for when you are old and settling down..lol if you dont want her 1000000000000000 other men do and she does not need to be bothered at all...
 

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I agree with the last two posts. 6-7s are the same way nowadays...and for a lot of guys (including myself) it's about quick sex, not a long lasting connection, so these women don't have to develop personalities.
 
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