"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Decided to stop seeing a hb9, quick story on looks...

gimmeyofonenumba

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Looks simply arent everything when it comes to women. This girl is a solid 9, turned heads and drunk dudes chasing her, literally got me into physical confrontations. With that said, she is very nice, socal,lovable,etc. She is way to materialistic. We still talk from time to time, and she ried to spark my interest by telling me all theese cool vacations she has planned, a new bmw she just got,etc. Zero education, zero self discipline. Just no admirable qualities outside of her looks and charm. That line "what else do you have going for you other than looks?" is not just a pickup line, it is absolutely integral. My point is, you could find a hb10 and still end up settling, if she is an undesriable person on the inside.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well if you notice, most players end up settling down with 7s and 8s with GOOD personalities and who actually bring something to a relationship rather than some smoking hot 10 who has no personality and basically nothing but her looks. People new to the game always wanna bag a 10 but after awhile most people realize that what's inside also counts for alot.
 

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I don't even bother chasing any girls with no personality. I'll go on a few dates to get to know them, but once I find out they have nothing going on inside their head they're out.

Looks do matter when it comes to the way you present yourself and dress though. No girl wants to date a dude that has no style and proper hygiene. I'm not saying you have to be a total metrosexual, but just have a sense of fashion.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It works both ways, too. A good looking guy with no personality will only end up attracting the kind of person you described. Then, they'll both end up complaining about how stupid and worthless the other person is - without realizing that they're the same way.

Looks aren't everything. Not for them, and not for you to attract any decent girls. You'll just get a lot of shallow blondie ho's, if thats all you focus on.
 

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Looks simply arent everything when it comes to women. This girl is a solid 9, turned heads and drunk dudes chasing her, literally got me into physical confrontations. With that said, she is very nice, socal,lovable,etc. She is way to materialistic. We still talk from time to time, and she ried to spark my interest by telling me all theese cool vacations she has planned, a new bmw she just got,etc. Zero education, zero self discipline. Just no admirable qualities outside of her looks and charm. That line "what else do you have going for you other than looks?" is not just a pickup line, it is absolutely integral. My point is, you could find a hb10 and still end up settling, if she is an undesriable person on the inside.

true but most men want to F as many hot chick as fast and cheaply as they can ..all the emotional stuff if for when you are old and settling down..lol if you dont want her 1000000000000000 other men do and she does not need to be bothered at all...
 

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I agree with the last two posts. 6-7s are the same way nowadays...and for a lot of guys (including myself) it's about quick sex, not a long lasting connection, so these women don't have to develop personalities.
 
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