Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Decent Opener in the Field

DinoCassanova

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Out in the field this past Saturday night, at a club in downtown Chicago, I witnessed a friend of mine (who I always suspected might be a DJ in disguise) pull what turned out to be a pretty decent move. This is one I'll probably try on my own another time, and furthermore it worked so well that it caused me to change my "signature" here ! lol...... Basically, this buddy of mine seems to have taken IceCube's advice in that song I quoted to a T.

We were standing at the bar of this club, and there were a couple of pretty hot blondes ( typical club blondes, spray tanned, clunky high heeled shoes, you know the type I'm sure) and so anyway my friend kind of wedged his way in there (it was crowded) right up to the bar, and he's standing there right next to one of them. He looks at her and asks her what she's drinking. She says, "Stoli and cranberry" I think it was. So he says to the bartender, "Two Stolis and cranberry please". As the bartender's making them real quick the chick just kind of sits there, looking fairly pleased w/herself, probably glad she's about to get bought a drink (maybe not for the first time that evening), but she had this pissy look on her face and I could just tell that if he tried anything further w/her after buying her the drink it would just be basic politeness from her, at best, and she would then just either clam up to get him to leave, or just up and leave w/her friend. That was just the vibe I was getting; she seemed unapproachable pretty much. So anyway, when the drinks were done the bartender puts them right in front of my friend and her, and she goes to grab one as he's paying. He takes them both and he says, "Oh , no, I'm sorry.....these are for my buddy and I. I was just askin you what you're drinking cuz it looks like you come here alot, and probably know what's good." He hands me the other drink, turning about half away from her, and she says, "I don't come here alot actually." Conversation opened. We ended up talking to them and dancing w/them the rest of the night and I know he both kiss and number-closed her. I kissed but did not # close the friend. She's actually a pretty decent chick, but a real club/party girl , so not really my "type" overall. But anyway, I just thought it was a good line and figured someone else here might like to try it sometime and see how it goes, if you haven't done so already. ~Dino
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DinoCassanova

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Sweet!

>>> Yeah it was pretty slick. As much as I'd love to take credit for having done it myself, I have to give that guy credit for it. And, to compile some "scientific data" on this, I even ran it by a couple female friends last night while we were watching the world series game, and they both go, perhaps tellingly, "what a jerk! ....... that's pretty good though !" I said, what would you two do in that situation? And they both said they'd definitely start talking to a guy if he did that. Ironically they said that they would most likely respond pretty much exactly the way the girl at the club responded, " I don't come here alot." But once they do that, they've opened themselves for you, even if they don't realize it.
 

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I like that.

I'll have to try that sometime.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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