"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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Debate whether to persist on the cancelled call or not

Nightspark

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Eh i cant figure out a proper title for what i'm trying to ask... but the rest of this post will fix that up.

Anyways it's been sometime that I've been single and it's been a pretty good ride... BUT of course there's always something to get me off track... just recently after telling my Ex i lost my virginity to a girl who i was pretty fond of, she began to pester me in wanting me back notion... and well i accepted it but however i had one last fling with the girl and well she called me during it... and let's just say it's not a pretty site...

anyways it's been 2 weeks since that happened and she's just overly confused now but i do sense that she's still interested, but that's not what im asking... what i'm asking is a question that i never ever have had a proper answer to. What i'm wondering is what do you do in a situation like this:


My ex said we'd speak about us on tuesday night and i didnt pick up 2 of her calls, due to the fact i was busy driving (it's illegal here to talk on mobiles whilst driving), anyways i got back and it was a good 40mins (it was 10:30pm) before i returned her call. She cancelled it...

NOW at this point i was debating whether to send her an SMS about her not putting in effort and what have you.... And i did... But i'm wondering what some people would do in this situation:

Would you have sent that sms or called later or would you just leave it be and go to sleep?
 

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Oops, I didn't read the second paragraph. It doesn't seem like she's worth any trouble, but you have to decide. I agree with ToP Don.
 
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