"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Debate whether to persist on the cancelled call or not

Nightspark

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Eh i cant figure out a proper title for what i'm trying to ask... but the rest of this post will fix that up.

Anyways it's been sometime that I've been single and it's been a pretty good ride... BUT of course there's always something to get me off track... just recently after telling my Ex i lost my virginity to a girl who i was pretty fond of, she began to pester me in wanting me back notion... and well i accepted it but however i had one last fling with the girl and well she called me during it... and let's just say it's not a pretty site...

anyways it's been 2 weeks since that happened and she's just overly confused now but i do sense that she's still interested, but that's not what im asking... what i'm asking is a question that i never ever have had a proper answer to. What i'm wondering is what do you do in a situation like this:


My ex said we'd speak about us on tuesday night and i didnt pick up 2 of her calls, due to the fact i was busy driving (it's illegal here to talk on mobiles whilst driving), anyways i got back and it was a good 40mins (it was 10:30pm) before i returned her call. She cancelled it...

NOW at this point i was debating whether to send her an SMS about her not putting in effort and what have you.... And i did... But i'm wondering what some people would do in this situation:

Would you have sent that sms or called later or would you just leave it be and go to sleep?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oops, I didn't read the second paragraph. It doesn't seem like she's worth any trouble, but you have to decide. I agree with ToP Don.
 
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