Souls? Tools? Guys, come on, this is like discussing what it would happen if you approached that sexy girl. You will not know untill you actually do it. So, since none of us have been dead yet, lets just drop this and enjoy this life until we drop.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Death...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
wtf?
And by the way... discussion death isn’t gonna prevent us from enjoying this life.. this is just an interesting discussion, so if u do not agree that this should be discussed, then rather don’t post at all, rather than tell people to "drop it" *sigh*
Laterz....
I find this topic to be rather interesting, that’s why I brought it up, so if you have nothing constructive to add to the thread, please don’t try and dissencourage others to post to this thread.... and I don’t know about u, but just because we haven’t been dead yet, doesn’t mean its not something that interests us! And as you can see, this thread turned out to be rather interesting, to see the different opinions and views of people.... so either contribute to it, or don’t post in it
And by the way... discussion death isn’t gonna prevent us from enjoying this life.. this is just an interesting discussion, so if u do not agree that this should be discussed, then rather don’t post at all, rather than tell people to "drop it" *sigh*
Laterz....
CableLight
Master Don Juan
I think death is truly a very interesting topic. Why? Well:
The only people that truly know what - if anything - happens after we die are already dead. It's the ultimate unknown, the final puzzle, etc.
In a way, it is like Oxide said in that you don't know what happens until you experience it, but in a way it's also different. This isn't like talking to a girl because you know there's always going to be other girls after that one. In this case, you only have the one shot and have no certainty of what happens afterwards. There is the possibility that this is the one shot we have - ever - without any coming after it. In this sense, death is a very provacative instance.
The only people that truly know what - if anything - happens after we die are already dead. It's the ultimate unknown, the final puzzle, etc.
In a way, it is like Oxide said in that you don't know what happens until you experience it, but in a way it's also different. This isn't like talking to a girl because you know there's always going to be other girls after that one. In this case, you only have the one shot and have no certainty of what happens afterwards. There is the possibility that this is the one shot we have - ever - without any coming after it. In this sense, death is a very provacative instance.
Not really......
CableLight: I happen to be in the position where i know people (doctors) that are in that whole spiritual world.. and the things that i have heard and learned from them have made me look at death etc in a different way... and these people that i know that are spiritual etc, they have a much greater knowledge of what happens to someone after they die... My mother being one of those people that work with spirituality etc (She is a doctor/healer and some other **** that i dont know what they mean) I dont really know ALOT about all that death stuff because she chooses to NOT tell me TOO much when i ask... blah... but the point that i am trying to prove is that NOT only the dead know what happens after death etc.. there ARE people on this earth that ARE spiritual enough to know too.
Laterz...
CableLight: I happen to be in the position where i know people (doctors) that are in that whole spiritual world.. and the things that i have heard and learned from them have made me look at death etc in a different way... and these people that i know that are spiritual etc, they have a much greater knowledge of what happens to someone after they die... My mother being one of those people that work with spirituality etc (She is a doctor/healer and some other **** that i dont know what they mean
) I dont really know ALOT about all that death stuff because she chooses to NOT tell me TOO much when i ask... blah... but the point that i am trying to prove is that NOT only the dead know what happens after death etc.. there ARE people on this earth that ARE spiritual enough to know too. Laterz...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.