Souls? Tools? Guys, come on, this is like discussing what it would happen if you approached that sexy girl. You will not know untill you actually do it. So, since none of us have been dead yet, lets just drop this and enjoy this life until we drop.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.