"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Death of casual sex, and is the game revelation ending?

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jurry said:
The rise of sexual partner count versus number of sexual acts, that was the current discussion you initiated, I believe, and leads one to wonder why so many "DJ's" would be bemoaning the rise of "wh0redom" in the first place if it would make their lifestyles more socially acceptable.
Who "bemoaned" it ? Has anyone (besides you) even mentioned that in this thread yet?

And even if they had do you really need an explanation as to why a bunch of ex-carousel riders sporting the thousand c@ck stare and cats is ultimately unhealthy for higher civilization? I don't think you're that stupid.

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jurry said:
EDIT (at the limit): lol
This Bible Belt is why we have a 10 post limit. The loveshack gang rack up posts like nobodies business.

jurry said:
The problem is you only know absolutes, she is either a submissive housewife or "you-gogrrling it in the club toilet" and a "carousel rider".. she can't just be an average person travelling from relationship to relationship.
No she can't. This has already been discussed ad nauseam. Statistics show it only takes a sampling of 6 different c@cks for a woman's ability to long term pair bond decrease by 70%. (Men instinctively know all this anyway) Men and women are just built different, physically and mentally designed for different things, you're going to have to deal with it.

jurry said:
If you cant control what she does, then fvck her shes a slut bringing down the whole society, right?
Get your head out of you're ass woman. If men were "controlling" you you wouldn't all end up over medicated, herding cats and crying into your red wine. Stop projecting.

jurry said:
I've had a number of the same discussions with you before.. so just man up and..
She prays just before she diddles herself to sleep.

jurry said:
What the fvck do i care if women are less likely to form LTR??
What the hell? You asked the question I answered it. This isn't your diary sugar tits.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jurry said:
I don't see the problem. Marriage is dead (good riddance), women are much more open to just sleeping around, the taboo of casual sex is falling away. This is the exact opposite of what the OP is claiming.
I don't think I made myself clear enough in the opening post, (and to be fair the title is misleading). I don't mean people sleeping with strangers is ending, I mean that from my experience of getting older, I've noticed that more of the women I sleep with in what is typically a one night stand, or casual sex situation, don't want it to be that and try to take the brief relationship further. Just to repeat myself:

I am saying that I have noticed more women wanting to extend casual sex, or even just a one night stand, into something more.

And I was asking if this is because of the amount of males out there who are more pvssys than men making any guy with game a woman meets a catch to keep.

My second question was: why haven't more men become aware that what they're typically told to do regarding women (for example, "a real man treats his woman like a queen" or "do what it takes to make her happy") is nonsense, when there are more men than ever trying to get these men in the right mind frame.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
This Bible Belt is why we have a 10 post limit. The loveshack gang rack up posts like nobodies business.
I was about to say this guy has more post than I do and he has been on here for only 7 months...some one needs to get away from the computer.

OP Thanks for clarifying, i must admit that I was a little confused myself as to what exactly you were talking about when this thread started. I also want to add I think your 100% right. Every ONS I've had the woman is immediately discussing us either going out on a date, starting a relationship, etc. Really all she is achieving by doing this is making my clothes get back on my body that much quicker.

Hell even a few years ago I could get a ONS and there was no discussion about dating and all that. Those woman later became my FWB and things would continue for a few months. I get into an actual relationship and when I get out its as if the whole thing just changed over 2 years. I'm left wondering what the hell happened to the scene while I was away.
 

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Thundernuts said:
OP Thanks for clarifying, i must admit that I was a little confused myself as to what exactly you were talking about when this thread started. I also want to add I think your 100% right. Every ONS I've had the woman is immediately discussing us either going out on a date, starting a relationship, etc. Really all she is achieving by doing this is making my clothes get back on my body that much quicker.

Hell even a few years ago I could get a ONS and there was no discussion about dating and all that. Those woman later became my FWB and things would continue for a few months. I get into an actual relationship and when I get out its as if the whole thing just changed over 2 years. I'm left wondering what the hell happened to the scene while I was away.
My thoughts exactly, but I think it'll take a bit longer to find out why this is happening all of a sudden.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
An increase in you GoGrrrl-ing it in the club toilet with randoms does not equate to women having more sex.
I agree with ( . )( . ); Girls have engaged in whoring in a much higher degree than ever, it is now "socially" acceptable; actually i believe a lot of girls are directly encouraged to "trying something new", experimenting and having lots of partners..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zarky said:
:crackup: Hey, I've seen changes in the past 5 years, it's not that long but it's still time. :D
 
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