Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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death is a WELCOME surcease from pain,

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for EVERYBODY, eventually. If everyone lived forever, the world would be standing room only in short order! If YOU lived forever, and nobody else did, you'd watch all your loved ones die, and you'd KNOW that such was going to be the case, after 50 years or so, too! So what happiness could you have, hmm? it would be a HELL, actually. You'd never bother to do anything, cause you'd have time enough to do EVERYTHING, so anything you chose to do would just be a whim, and thus, completely unsatisfying! So why do it?

So you see, death is not a thing to fear. It is a WELCOME "way out", when you are trapped by enemies, ruined by disease or accident, irretreivably dishonored, and so on. Being crippled-diseased, now THAT is to be feared, but Death offers a way out, unless you are a weak-assed punk, or somehow get ruined from the neck down, too quickly to do anything about it. The BASIS for a belief in "god" is the fear of death, so the entire thing is irrational. Death is GONNA happen, so why stress out over a known outcome?

There is no reason to believe in an "afterlife", nor should your po'lil' ego NEED such a promise. This is it, guys, there's never going to be anything else, we are never leaving this solar system, and the earth's resources are going to be used up in <50 years if we don't stop increasing the human population. Mother nature is going to do that FOR us if we don't do it voluntarily. She ALWAYS finds a way to "knock back" a ruinously over populated species. Most likely, we are going to get a pandemic that makes the Black Death of Europe (1500s) look like a picnic.

So go ahead, be selfish a-hole and have your "own" kids, instead of adopting and caring for those already here. That way you'll get wiped out, as you deserve, for being as dumb as a lizard.


" Life is its OWN purpose, and the good is to LIVE IT". (Ayn Rand).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Humans are animals like any other. We have a mating instinct like any other. Reproduction is a basic biological function, no different from digestion or respiration.

To dummy it down: eat, breathe, fvck.

Guilt-baiting a man for being a man is . . . feminism.
 

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being irrational is just stupid. we aint like animals in what makes us human so why keep acting like one?
 

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What makes us human? Upright posture, specialized hand with opposible thumb, color vision, depth perception, sweating, permanently receptive female. In these, I see only animal characteristics.
 

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our ability to think in terms of CONCEPTS, not just mere percepts, our ability to remember and to project and prepare for the future. NOT out of instinct, but out of awareness that a given thing (winter, tsnanmai, etc) IS going to happen, or is likely ENOUGH to make preparation very highly advisable. Ability to read and write, so that information can be preserved intact, with nothing lost or added, as almost always happens with mere verbal commo and memorization.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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