"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dear School, your Cheerleaders' Uniforms Give me a B0ner

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"they are objectifying these girls"

Isn't that the point of cheerleaders? It always has been from what I can remember. It's not like they pick the fattest, ugliest girls to cheer.

I watched a little of the reality show about the Dallas Cowboy NFL cheerleaders. That is pretty much the definition of objectification.
 

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Because cheer leaders are supposed to be sexy and motivating? What are you looking for a hijab? Why do you feel this is a bad thing?
 

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I see it as one of America's great double standards.. Such a crime for a male to remotely think about under age 17yo old girls in a sexual manor, so lets show off their bodies to bring attention to their a womanly figure.
 
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