"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dear School, your Cheerleaders' Uniforms Give me a B0ner

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"they are objectifying these girls"

Isn't that the point of cheerleaders? It always has been from what I can remember. It's not like they pick the fattest, ugliest girls to cheer.

I watched a little of the reality show about the Dallas Cowboy NFL cheerleaders. That is pretty much the definition of objectification.
 

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Because cheer leaders are supposed to be sexy and motivating? What are you looking for a hijab? Why do you feel this is a bad thing?
 

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I see it as one of America's great double standards.. Such a crime for a male to remotely think about under age 17yo old girls in a sexual manor, so lets show off their bodies to bring attention to their a womanly figure.
 
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