rednecks in the south are the rudest...i am talking about southern white trash women...they top black women even in that department...i am white, but i am racist against rednecks, if that is possible...most of them at least
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hustlaz Ambition said:I live in Alabama, but I never leave the urban metro areas(very diverse) so I don't have much experience with the rural rednecks except this one university I attended. The whites and blacks ignored each other and there were no asians or hispanics. So that type of enviroment here in Bama just gave a terrible vibe, like it was 1955. So I transferred. Me being black I'm racist against hoodrats so I know how you feel about trash, even if its from your own race.
You make a lot of good points(especially black&hispanic women loving gangstas), except most(like 99%) of blacks who "made it" don't date black women. Those good brothers are there the whole time, the black woman just wasn't checking for them till it was too late. Those aint **** ass niggas are the ones black women go for and have a kid by them. Then, expect a black man who has his sh!t together to take care of another mans kid.FairShake said:50% of black guys are in prison, unemployed, or gay.
Yeah, totally the woman's fault.![]()
I grew up in a black neighborhood. The lack of adult male role models was striking. I mean legitimate ones. The women ran the place. If I was them I would be just as fed up with black man sh!t. It's the reason for the independent "a man can't do sh!t for me" attitude. A very high percentage of black men CAN'T do sh!t for them!
Most women, once they are older than, say, 23 or so, stop dating bad boys. Black (and some poorer white and Hispanic) women NEVER do. And THAT is their fault! Want to hate something? Hate that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Every white girl that dates black guys in my area goes on some special diet where she grows a HUGE fat @$$ and legs but her upper body is skinny. She also stars coloring her hair all weird and wearing weaves, gets SUPER long fingernails and talks like I don't know wtf.skinnyguy said:LaShonda is 350 pounds and thinks she is sexy. It doesn't take a brain surgeon to see what's wrong with this picture.
If I were black I would not even look at black women cause I would be chopping down every single white hoe I could find. White women love bbc