rednecks in the south are the rudest...i am talking about southern white trash women...they top black women even in that department...i am white, but i am racist against rednecks, if that is possible...most of them at least
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I live in Alabama, but I never leave the urban metro areas(very diverse) so I don't have much experience with the rural rednecks except this one university I attended. The whites and blacks ignored each other and there were no asians or hispanics. So that type of enviroment here in Bama just gave a terrible vibe, like it was 1955. So I transferred. Me being black I'm racist against hoodrats so I know how you feel about trash, even if its from your own race.
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Yep, pretty funny how those hoodrats are just giving the rest of the black woman a bad rep. Some of those black girls would love me, but they would be too stubborn to admit it, or they want it me to work for it... I don't understand the concept. And the attitude... They act like that are the sh!t simply because some lame ass dude are trying to fuq her.... Like girl, get the fuq outta here.
50% of black guys are in prison, unemployed, or gay.
Yeah, totally the woman's fault.
I grew up in a black neighborhood. The lack of adult male role models was striking. I mean legitimate ones. The women ran the place. If I was them I would be just as fed up with black man sh!t. It's the reason for the independent "a man can't do sh!t for me" attitude. A very high percentage of black men CAN'T do sh!t for them!
Most women, once they are older than, say, 23 or so, stop dating bad boys. Black (and some poorer white and Hispanic) women NEVER do. And THAT is their fault! Want to hate something? Hate that.
Yeah, totally the woman's fault.
I grew up in a black neighborhood. The lack of adult male role models was striking. I mean legitimate ones. The women ran the place. If I was them I would be just as fed up with black man sh!t. It's the reason for the independent "a man can't do sh!t for me" attitude. A very high percentage of black men CAN'T do sh!t for them!
Most women, once they are older than, say, 23 or so, stop dating bad boys. Black (and some poorer white and Hispanic) women NEVER do. And THAT is their fault! Want to hate something? Hate that.
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You make a lot of good points(especially black&hispanic women loving gangstas), except most(like 99%) of blacks who "made it" don't date black women. Those good brothers are there the whole time, the black woman just wasn't checking for them till it was too late. Those aint **** ass niggas are the ones black women go for and have a kid by them. Then, expect a black man who has his sh!t together to take care of another mans kid.FairShake said:50% of black guys are in prison, unemployed, or gay.
Yeah, totally the woman's fault.
I grew up in a black neighborhood. The lack of adult male role models was striking. I mean legitimate ones. The women ran the place. If I was them I would be just as fed up with black man sh!t. It's the reason for the independent "a man can't do sh!t for me" attitude. A very high percentage of black men CAN'T do sh!t for them!
Most women, once they are older than, say, 23 or so, stop dating bad boys. Black (and some poorer white and Hispanic) women NEVER do. And THAT is their fault! Want to hate something? Hate that.
Some black men (like 50 Cent or Floyd Mayweather) get tired of get nearly or get sent to jail fighting a black women who tries to literally kill you, then just say **** it then just date girls outside their race. I myself had to restrain myself from smacking some manners into some hoodrats myself MANY times.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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that's the big one i got once everyone found out I was engaged to my wife. the onslaught, even form faimly of "why are you marrying outside of your race" "there are plenty of good black women around"
first of all my defiaitno of good woman is different from theirs.
secondly, i gave up a long time ago trying to please anyone but myself, my wife and my son. If you don't' like the way I live my life, take a number get in line lol and someone can process your complaint.
I used to get shamed into dating women I didn't' want to date something bad.
**** that today you only live once.
first of all my defiaitno of good woman is different from theirs.
secondly, i gave up a long time ago trying to please anyone but myself, my wife and my son. If you don't' like the way I live my life, take a number get in line lol and someone can process your complaint.
I used to get shamed into dating women I didn't' want to date something bad.
**** that today you only live once.
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I don't usually respond to race threads but I just have to say that some of must not live in the right area, because from my travels; I've seen very attractive black women. I think some of you guys look past them and you miss a lot of the sexy and feminine ones. Now some of them may be of bad character and little masculine because of the "I don't need a man" attitude. But plenty are very respectable. I'm not saying that you shouldn't date outside your race; hell I find many different races attractive, myself but If you think there aren't many attractive black women, then I really don't know what to say to you other than "More for me."
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I am sorry and I don't want to sound racist because I am not. But Black American women these days seem to be the worse. I am not saying they are all bad but my experience is this.
I can love black women I have done it before. I dated a chic from Liberia and she was completely feminine and nice and sweet. She cooked me dinner and brought it over, but she already had a kid from her white ex husband so I couldn't take her seriously.
Before that I dated a black American woman and she was the most low class nasty hoe I have ever met. When we first started dating she told me she doesn't like sharing, she wants to be exclusive. Then I found out at the same time she is banging 5 other men with 20 more in her phone book. She was a huge liar and cheater and if you pissed her off for any reason she would go ride another c0ck.
It was disgusting.
I can love black women I have done it before. I dated a chic from Liberia and she was completely feminine and nice and sweet. She cooked me dinner and brought it over, but she already had a kid from her white ex husband so I couldn't take her seriously.
Before that I dated a black American woman and she was the most low class nasty hoe I have ever met. When we first started dating she told me she doesn't like sharing, she wants to be exclusive. Then I found out at the same time she is banging 5 other men with 20 more in her phone book. She was a huge liar and cheater and if you pissed her off for any reason she would go ride another c0ck.
It was disgusting.
The thing I've noticed with the hottest black women in my area is they are highly educated. This all sounds good and all, but they ALWAYS seem to go for the nerdy type of white guys that can get them places. Case in point, met this beautiful light skinned black girl a few years back, she was really cool and had her head on straight. She was a political science major, and she ONLY went for other political science majors. Unless you had an MBA and were CEO of Microsoft, she wasn't going to date you or give you any. Now if you were some half-@$$ed butt sniffer that worked for some politician, she'd be all over your sh!t because she was trying to break into politics. I guess I can understand it, but I swear the hottest black women I see always seem to lower their standards waaaaaay down from what they can pull. White women do it too, but not as bad as the sexiest black women.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LaShonda is 350 pounds and thinks she is sexy. It doesn't take a brain surgeon to see what's wrong with this picture.
If I were black I would not even look at black women cause I would be chopping down every single white hoe I could find. White women love bbc
If I were black I would not even look at black women cause I would be chopping down every single white hoe I could find. White women love bbc
Every white girl that dates black guys in my area goes on some special diet where she grows a HUGE fat @$$ and legs but her upper body is skinny. She also stars coloring her hair all weird and wearing weaves, gets SUPER long fingernails and talks like I don't know wtf.skinnyguy said:
The are lots of beautiful black women out there. The hot ones definitely seem like a rare find. I can go out to the grocery store in my neighborhood and see at least 10 hot white girls. I went to college in a town that had a large black college and a large white one. The black campus had hot girls but the ratio wasn't the same as the white school. I would attend parties from both schools, the black parties would have like 5 hot chicks total, the white party would have 5 chicks I wouldn't touch, but 30 or so the I would love to get with. I haven't dated a black women in awhile. I can relate to a lot of what people are saying, about being ghetto etc. There are some hot black chicks that will blow you away, and be faithful, sophisticated, educated, the total package.