rednecks in the south are the rudest...i am talking about southern white trash women...they top black women even in that department...i am white, but i am racist against rednecks, if that is possible...most of them at least
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dear Black Women...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I live in Alabama, but I never leave the urban metro areas(very diverse) so I don't have much experience with the rural rednecks except this one university I attended. The whites and blacks ignored each other and there were no asians or hispanics. So that type of enviroment here in Bama just gave a terrible vibe, like it was 1955. So I transferred. Me being black I'm racist against hoodrats so I know how you feel about trash, even if its from your own race.
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Yep, pretty funny how those hoodrats are just giving the rest of the black woman a bad rep. Some of those black girls would love me, but they would be too stubborn to admit it, or they want it me to work for it... I don't understand the concept. And the attitude... They act like that are the sh!t simply because some lame ass dude are trying to fuq her.... Like girl, get the fuq outta here.
50% of black guys are in prison, unemployed, or gay.
Yeah, totally the woman's fault.
I grew up in a black neighborhood. The lack of adult male role models was striking. I mean legitimate ones. The women ran the place. If I was them I would be just as fed up with black man sh!t. It's the reason for the independent "a man can't do sh!t for me" attitude. A very high percentage of black men CAN'T do sh!t for them!
Most women, once they are older than, say, 23 or so, stop dating bad boys. Black (and some poorer white and Hispanic) women NEVER do. And THAT is their fault! Want to hate something? Hate that.
Yeah, totally the woman's fault.
I grew up in a black neighborhood. The lack of adult male role models was striking. I mean legitimate ones. The women ran the place. If I was them I would be just as fed up with black man sh!t. It's the reason for the independent "a man can't do sh!t for me" attitude. A very high percentage of black men CAN'T do sh!t for them!
Most women, once they are older than, say, 23 or so, stop dating bad boys. Black (and some poorer white and Hispanic) women NEVER do. And THAT is their fault! Want to hate something? Hate that.
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You make a lot of good points(especially black&hispanic women loving gangstas), except most(like 99%) of blacks who "made it" don't date black women. Those good brothers are there the whole time, the black woman just wasn't checking for them till it was too late. Those aint **** ass niggas are the ones black women go for and have a kid by them. Then, expect a black man who has his sh!t together to take care of another mans kid.FairShake said:50% of black guys are in prison, unemployed, or gay.
Yeah, totally the woman's fault.
I grew up in a black neighborhood. The lack of adult male role models was striking. I mean legitimate ones. The women ran the place. If I was them I would be just as fed up with black man sh!t. It's the reason for the independent "a man can't do sh!t for me" attitude. A very high percentage of black men CAN'T do sh!t for them!
Most women, once they are older than, say, 23 or so, stop dating bad boys. Black (and some poorer white and Hispanic) women NEVER do. And THAT is their fault! Want to hate something? Hate that.
Some black men (like 50 Cent or Floyd Mayweather) get tired of get nearly or get sent to jail fighting a black women who tries to literally kill you, then just say **** it then just date girls outside their race. I myself had to restrain myself from smacking some manners into some hoodrats myself MANY times.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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that's the big one i got once everyone found out I was engaged to my wife. the onslaught, even form faimly of "why are you marrying outside of your race" "there are plenty of good black women around"
first of all my defiaitno of good woman is different from theirs.
secondly, i gave up a long time ago trying to please anyone but myself, my wife and my son. If you don't' like the way I live my life, take a number get in line lol and someone can process your complaint.
I used to get shamed into dating women I didn't' want to date something bad.
**** that today you only live once.
first of all my defiaitno of good woman is different from theirs.
secondly, i gave up a long time ago trying to please anyone but myself, my wife and my son. If you don't' like the way I live my life, take a number get in line lol and someone can process your complaint.
I used to get shamed into dating women I didn't' want to date something bad.
**** that today you only live once.
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I don't usually respond to race threads but I just have to say that some of must not live in the right area, because from my travels; I've seen very attractive black women. I think some of you guys look past them and you miss a lot of the sexy and feminine ones. Now some of them may be of bad character and little masculine because of the "I don't need a man" attitude. But plenty are very respectable. I'm not saying that you shouldn't date outside your race; hell I find many different races attractive, myself but If you think there aren't many attractive black women, then I really don't know what to say to you other than "More for me."
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I am sorry and I don't want to sound racist because I am not. But Black American women these days seem to be the worse. I am not saying they are all bad but my experience is this.
I can love black women I have done it before. I dated a chic from Liberia and she was completely feminine and nice and sweet. She cooked me dinner and brought it over, but she already had a kid from her white ex husband so I couldn't take her seriously.
Before that I dated a black American woman and she was the most low class nasty hoe I have ever met. When we first started dating she told me she doesn't like sharing, she wants to be exclusive. Then I found out at the same time she is banging 5 other men with 20 more in her phone book. She was a huge liar and cheater and if you pissed her off for any reason she would go ride another c0ck.
It was disgusting.
I can love black women I have done it before. I dated a chic from Liberia and she was completely feminine and nice and sweet. She cooked me dinner and brought it over, but she already had a kid from her white ex husband so I couldn't take her seriously.
Before that I dated a black American woman and she was the most low class nasty hoe I have ever met. When we first started dating she told me she doesn't like sharing, she wants to be exclusive. Then I found out at the same time she is banging 5 other men with 20 more in her phone book. She was a huge liar and cheater and if you pissed her off for any reason she would go ride another c0ck.
It was disgusting.
The thing I've noticed with the hottest black women in my area is they are highly educated. This all sounds good and all, but they ALWAYS seem to go for the nerdy type of white guys that can get them places. Case in point, met this beautiful light skinned black girl a few years back, she was really cool and had her head on straight. She was a political science major, and she ONLY went for other political science majors. Unless you had an MBA and were CEO of Microsoft, she wasn't going to date you or give you any. Now if you were some half-@$$ed butt sniffer that worked for some politician, she'd be all over your sh!t because she was trying to break into politics. I guess I can understand it, but I swear the hottest black women I see always seem to lower their standards waaaaaay down from what they can pull. White women do it too, but not as bad as the sexiest black women.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LaShonda is 350 pounds and thinks she is sexy. It doesn't take a brain surgeon to see what's wrong with this picture.
If I were black I would not even look at black women cause I would be chopping down every single white hoe I could find. White women love bbc
If I were black I would not even look at black women cause I would be chopping down every single white hoe I could find. White women love bbc
Every white girl that dates black guys in my area goes on some special diet where she grows a HUGE fat @$$ and legs but her upper body is skinny. She also stars coloring her hair all weird and wearing weaves, gets SUPER long fingernails and talks like I don't know wtf.skinnyguy said:
The are lots of beautiful black women out there. The hot ones definitely seem like a rare find. I can go out to the grocery store in my neighborhood and see at least 10 hot white girls. I went to college in a town that had a large black college and a large white one. The black campus had hot girls but the ratio wasn't the same as the white school. I would attend parties from both schools, the black parties would have like 5 hot chicks total, the white party would have 5 chicks I wouldn't touch, but 30 or so the I would love to get with. I haven't dated a black women in awhile. I can relate to a lot of what people are saying, about being ghetto etc. There are some hot black chicks that will blow you away, and be faithful, sophisticated, educated, the total package.