"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dealing with: "You would rather TEASE ME than COMPLIMENT Me"

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I am dating someone who has a HIL (high interest level), partly because I am good at being slightly ****y(in a light, flippant way), unpredictable, fun, and am good at neg hittings.

She loves it. But she STILL is going to complain about it.

This is just how women are. Since you are smarter it will be easy to see the double double way she's going to look at it.

The most obvious thing she said over the weekend is ' why dont you ever compliment me? Youre always putting me downn. You must not even like me'

When I heard it i knew my attitude was coming across. Not in a mean way, but she no way was bored with me.

My response was more of the same. No reason to get all sappy then. I shrugged it off with 'i only kid people who can handle it' or something like that. Of course she loved it.

refuse to let her complaints prevent you from the attitude.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i think its a test, trying to see whether you'd change your attitude or not
 
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PeeGee

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It's definitely a test. Now, a question about your choice of words:

what does being ****y in a flippant type of manner imply? I'm curious as it sounds more negative than it probably is.
 
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