Dealing with witty and smarts

[Fumbduck]

Hello All,

How would you deal with a smart, witty girl who is not alpha by any means- but understands your leading/probing DJ questions and tactics and whether it be on purpose or by accident giving you an answer you're not looking for.

Hypothetical responses:

(you) "It's a shame you could never be my girlfriend"
(her) "awww oh well"

(you) "I hate you"
(her) "you love it"



You know the type of question, the 'fishing'/'leading' questions when you're looking for a type of response and stimulus from a girl...however she will intentionally or by accident come up with a response you're not anticipating

 

[LostAndConfused]

She's playing push-pull with you / toying with you.

It kinda opens up a good way to build interest in her though...playing her game of push-pull, but even better.

Not tellin ya to stoop to her level...but...you've gotta play games with her too.

 

[potato]

She's playing push-pull with you / toying with you.

It kinda opens up a good way to build interest in her though...playing her game of push-pull, but even better.

Not tellin ya to stoop to her level...but...you've gotta play games with her too.

Stoop to her level? The guy is trying to game her and she is toying with him - sounds like she has the upper hand.

I have a girlfriend who regularly gets hit on and regularly plays with guys who think that they have great game. It is really fun to watch. Some guy will come up to her and start in on her an she just plays along for awhile and keeps saying things that end up frustrating the guy and then she laughs at him, tells him to have a nice day. It’s one of the major reasons that I think game is a bunch of crap.

 

[Sandow]

I get these responses sometimes. At first it threw me off, but it's actually a good sign. She likes your personality and is just mimicking you. She's enjoys your company and is just sort of playing with you too. Probably because she has a similar personality and likes your sense of humor.

Now, if she wasn't into you, she defiinitely would not be giving you those type of responses. She would either ignore you or ask why you would say something like that.

By the way, you should be happy you met a girl like this, these are the most fun to be around with.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I get these responses sometimes. At first it threw me off, but it's actually a good sign. She likes your personality and is just mimicking you. She's enjoys your company and is just sort of playing with you too. Probably because she has a similar personality and likes your sense of humor.

Now, if she wasn't into you, she defiinitely would not be giving you those type of responses. She would either ignore you or ask why you would say something like that.

By the way, you should be happy you met a girl like this, these are the most fun to be around with.

Right. I love to banter with girls who have very much like my personality to begin with. Makes it easy to love these kind. Free chicks. The ones that are cold and distant, I can't stand, because I know that they're the most judgmental kind and I don't like being wrongly labeled because I know I'm the most ideal guy for ANY woman so if a woman is judging me then she must be pulling the judgments out of her a$$ or from some outside source, like her parents' conditioning or some dude feeding her a bunch of bs about me.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

It is on man. She gets it, and likes what she hears/sees. These type of girls are always ready to engage you. You've been thinking about her a lot haven't you? By all means, go toe to toe with her, and increase that attraction.

 

[Dongfu]

This where the Mystery Method falls short

 

[Gangster Of Love]

This where the Mystery Method falls short

Where, what part exactly? Do tell.