"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dealing with this Situation

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Apparently one of the girls I've been gaming on is falling for another guy, one that I absolutely hate with a ****ing passion. He's a massive douchebag; for example, over the summer one of my best friends broke up with his girlfriend of two years. This guy, who had become good friends with both the girl and my friend, took his chance and started to game the girl. He then went on to tell my friend that he had only "pretended" to be cool with him because he wanted his girl. To me that's just behavior of trash.

So, now how do I deal with this situation? Give up on this girl? - Easiest way but this girl is a huge catch, I can't stand seeing her with this fag. Game her harder? - Piss him off, not sure how it'll work but we'll see. Any other options?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Been there, done that. Sometimes you just gotta walk away. But, if you think she's worth the effort of fighting for, do whatever you think. Try and act cool around her - and obviously you have the talent of knowing what cool is since you've picked up on what douchebaggery looks like - just try and act attractive without losing personality and affection. Try and piss him off too :D
 
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I would say move on. Sounds like youve missed the opportunity with her. The best way to stop thinking about her is to start talking to more girls and talk to her less. Just whatever you do dont start trying to game her like crazy now because the attraction has worn off and you will be friendzoned.
 
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answer: don't care about the girls you game or the girls you date. you are just in it for the mutual enjoyment
game her more, but in a chill way. a stud is surrounded by girls he can pick and choose. just show her you are interested in her, and a lot of other girls. kills two birds with one stone
 
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Chillout Indy. One of the keys to Don Juaning, is patience. There are plenty of other 'huge catches' out there. You just need to filter them. in the meantime that your friend dates the girl, go get your own, or multiples.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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