"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dealing with this Situation

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Indy95

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Apparently one of the girls I've been gaming on is falling for another guy, one that I absolutely hate with a ****ing passion. He's a massive douchebag; for example, over the summer one of my best friends broke up with his girlfriend of two years. This guy, who had become good friends with both the girl and my friend, took his chance and started to game the girl. He then went on to tell my friend that he had only "pretended" to be cool with him because he wanted his girl. To me that's just behavior of trash.

So, now how do I deal with this situation? Give up on this girl? - Easiest way but this girl is a huge catch, I can't stand seeing her with this fag. Game her harder? - Piss him off, not sure how it'll work but we'll see. Any other options?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Been there, done that. Sometimes you just gotta walk away. But, if you think she's worth the effort of fighting for, do whatever you think. Try and act cool around her - and obviously you have the talent of knowing what cool is since you've picked up on what douchebaggery looks like - just try and act attractive without losing personality and affection. Try and piss him off too :D
 
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I would say move on. Sounds like youve missed the opportunity with her. The best way to stop thinking about her is to start talking to more girls and talk to her less. Just whatever you do dont start trying to game her like crazy now because the attraction has worn off and you will be friendzoned.
 
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answer: don't care about the girls you game or the girls you date. you are just in it for the mutual enjoyment
game her more, but in a chill way. a stud is surrounded by girls he can pick and choose. just show her you are interested in her, and a lot of other girls. kills two birds with one stone
 
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Chillout Indy. One of the keys to Don Juaning, is patience. There are plenty of other 'huge catches' out there. You just need to filter them. in the meantime that your friend dates the girl, go get your own, or multiples.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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