"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dealing With The Pain Anything New Out There

ZTIME

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So since I was 17 I've been dealing with "Cluster Migraines". I get them daily for about 2 - 3 months out of the year. These aren't your lay in a dark room and close your eyes migraines, they're the blow your fuc**ng brains out migraines. They're often referred to as "suicide headaches".

Two questions:

1: Anyone here familiar with these?

2. Anyone here familiar with any treatments for these other then what I know? (I'll list my treatments below).

Oxygen: Lessens the length of the headache but not the intensity.

Topimax (Anti Seizure): 100mg daily. lessens the amount of daily attacks from 3 to 1-2.

Medrose pack (steroid) reduces swelling in temple area.

Imitrex injections. will stop migraine but will not prevent future attack.

I eat clean (protein and vegetables, very low carbs. I drink lots of water). I'm wondering if anyone knows or has heard of any preventative meds or holistic approaches to dealing with this situation. Thanks in advance.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sodbuster

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IF it starts coming on, check to see if you are clenching your teeth. About half of all migraines are caused by that. IF you've been diagnosed with migraines by an MD, the Dentist can make you a mouthpiece to try to eliminate them and bill your medical insurance.... but they don't like paying a Dentist, so there NEEDS to be serious documentation from an MD
 

Malcontent

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For me it's a cup of coffee and taking a sh!t each morning. If I skip either one of these, I start getting the aura thing.
 
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