"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dealing with the "Hot guys"

jadeona13

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I pretty tight with my game. Not perfect but getting there. One thing that i constantly have trouble with is one that affects my game..the dreaded "Hot Guy" that all the girls fall for.

Pretty much EVERYTIME i am macking on a girl (good rapport, kino, and all), its always a "Hot Guy" that will affect my game.

Either he will instantly steal the girl from me, no matter if i was working on the girl for a week n he did only did for a day. Or she would constantly talk about him. Or constantly stare or daydream at him.

It really gets me down. They seem to have all the characteristics girls look for...confident, not needy, usually very macho, and extremely good looking.

What i want to know is...

How do you deal with this?
I tried AMOG, but they usually win at that. I try not letting it get to me and always pass her tests if the guy ever gets brought up

But its more than a test because theyll just flat out leave me and never talk to me again for him or suddenly place me in the dreaded FRIENDS zone, not mattter how sexual i am or how much kino i use.

I DEFINITELY DO NOT want to lower my standards to get a girl that a "Hot guy" wouldnt want..but ill admit i do see myself doing that lately

i really need help with this. thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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daygameguy

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you can look HOTTER than the HOT guy if you surround yourself with girls.

AFC Adam has a wonderful strategy which pretty much saves all the trouble guys face in field. According to him, it is best to do some day game, get some female friends, just run rapport building on them without attraction, make them good friends, get all the female friends you can (from work, from day game, from earlier night game etc) and get ALL these women to go with you during the night.

These female friends can seriously trigger pre-selection, and no other pretty boy can outmatch a social value of 5-10 hot girls.


PS: AFC Adam rolls with 20 girls btw. Pre-selection will make you the hottest guy. period. I personally haven't stepped into hardcore night gaming, but this is how I would do it.


Also, genetic looks do not matter, if you are better groomed than most guys in the club, and have some sexual peacock accessories on that make you stand out, you won't have to worry about your genetic looks.
 

DonJuan11

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jadeona13 said:
I pretty tight with my game. Not perfect but getting there. One thing that i constantly have trouble with is one that affects my game..the dreaded "Hot Guy" that all the girls fall for.

But its more than a test because theyll just flat out leave me and never talk to me again for him or suddenly place me in the dreaded FRIENDS zone, not mattter how sexual i am or how much kino i use.

I DEFINITELY DO NOT want to lower my standards to get a girl that a "Hot guy" wouldnt want..but ill admit i do see myself doing that lately
Your game isn't that tight if she gets distracted as soon as a "hot guy" walks by. It means you are not doing your job in catching her attention and building rapport and attraction. Your game should be so good that if a meteor hit the earth, she wouldn't be distracted, she would be focused on the conversation she was having with you.

If you were in a solid and enthusiastic conversation with an average girl, and a hot girl walked by, you wouldn't leave the conversation to go hit on the hot girl, you would continue happily. It all depends how smart you are and how well you play the game.
 

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It's the age old question: Do looks matter? In your situation, apparently they do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJDamage

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jadeona13 said:
I DEFINITELY DO NOT want to lower my standards to get a girl that a "Hot guy" wouldnt want
Then raise the standards within yourself.

jadeona13 said:
It really gets me down. They seem to have all the characteristics girls look for...confident, not needy, usually very macho, and extremely good looking.
Why aren't you confident? why are you needy? why aren't you macho? why aren't you hitting the gym?

Maybe your game is not so tight after all because a tight game includes everything in your arsenal that you can use.
 

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You beat the "hot guy" by becoming the "hot guy." Thats the reason you game, to let a girl know your confident, not needy, usually very macho, and extremely good looking.
 

nando

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scottfall said:
You beat the "hot guy" by becoming the "hot guy." Thats the reason you game, to let a girl know your confident, not needy, usually very macho, and extremely good looking.
true
 
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