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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Dealing with the friends of a girl you want to get with?

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How do you fellow DJs go about gaming a girl whos friends tell her not to get with you for whatever reason? This has happened to me a lot when gaming girls so let me know
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be friendly and charming to her friends, when she sees that you're not an a$$hole to her friends, she believes that theyre jealous and it pushes her into your lap. Either that or she has no will of her own and does as her friends tell her, in which case you're better off without her anyway. If you want a relationship with a girl, you want it with just that girl, not her friends too!
 

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I find sometimes even if your nice to her friends there will always be some conflict because her best friend or close friend whatever you want to call it will get mad at the fact your becoming between their friendship when thats not the case and I agree with you though I guess if she listens to her friends for decisions its time to let her ass go thanks.
 

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Women are constantly jealous of other women. True friendships between women are only real when one chick is vastly superior in every way. If the two girls are of relative standing/looks, they will constantly be in competition. I can't tell you how many times I heard my sister or even my girlfriends to some extent talking sh!t about one of her supposed 'friends' because said friend looked like a slvt or something. What they really mean is "damn she looks good I am jealous."

Now to deal with your problem: If the friend is jealous then it will only work to your benefit. If she genuinely disapproves of you though I wouldn't fret it. If the girl you are trying to get at values her friends opinions over her own values then you don't want to get with her anyway. I find often that when I try and break into a new circle there will always be some friendship "sh!t testing" because a.) they don't really know you and b.) they are being protective of their friend or c.) they are jealous that their gf is getting the attention. All you can do is try and warm up to them a bit. Give them some attention and make them feel happy.
 

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Haha that's actually true i've noticed that girls are really jealous creatures and hate on other girls or friends they perceive as a threat or is prettier anyway.. your saying if the friend is jealous it will work to my benefit.. but what if she genuinely dislikes me, say she doesn't think im attractive for her friend or her friends to out of my league then are you saying from there on that your thoughts of gaming said girl should be based on whether she listens to her friends or not? and do you think girls think for themselves or will most listen to there friends?
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DB12 said:
Haha that's actually true i've noticed that girls are really jealous creatures and hate on other girls or friends they perceive as a threat or is prettier anyway.. your saying if the friend is jealous it will work to my benefit.. but what if she genuinely dislikes me, say she doesn't think im attractive for her friend or her friends to out of my league then are you saying from there on that your thoughts of gaming said girl should be based on whether she listens to her friends or not? and do you think girls think for themselves or will most listen to there friends?
Girls will act on their feelings no matter what anyone else thinks or says. So you have to wonder what has more effect on the girls feelings. Is it the alpha male? Or the competitive 'girlfriend.' Alpha male will win every time. If this chick's friends don't approve of you and are actually putting you down while you are in their company, give that sh!t right back. Have a backbone.

If a girls friends don't think you are good looking enough for her though, you might be in trouble. We have all seen an ugly dude with a hot girl..and you know what the friends think of the guy when that scenario happens? They think the guy is a real catch. The situation doesn't work in the opposite fashion though. If there are 6 girls in a circle and five of them think the guy is ugly, you better believe the sixth girl will be highly influenced by their thoughts. Social status is imperative to a female's survival in the social world...so keep that in mind.
 

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Girls will act on their feelings no matter what anyone else thinks or says. So you have to wonder what has more effect on the girls feelings. Is it the alpha male? Or the competitive 'girlfriend.' Alpha male will win every time. If this chick's friends don't approve of you and are actually putting you down while you are in their company, give that sh!t right back. Have a backbone.

If a girls friends don't think you are good looking enough for her though, you might be in trouble. We have all seen an ugly dude with a hot girl..and you know what the friends think of the guy when that scenario happens? They think the guy is a real catch. The situation doesn't work in the opposite fashion though. If there are 6 girls in a circle and five of them think the guy is ugly, you better believe the sixth girl will be highly influenced by their thoughts. Social status is imperative to a female's survival in the social world...so keep that in mind.
So contrary to popular belief looks play a somewhat important roll in attracting women? and thanks for the advice im going to keep this in mind
 

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DB12 said:
So contrary to popular belief looks play a somewhat important roll in attracting women? and thanks for the advice im going to keep this in mind
Looks play a HUGE role in attracting women. If the girl doesn't find you physically attractive she wouldn't even let you in the door to game her. And if you do start to game her from jump and she doesn't find you attractive then to her your a "creep"
 
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