falconslax89
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dude you are retarded. the **** you say is not funny and its getting old.BigJimbo said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dealing with Stripper HB 9.5...
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Buyers Remorse
DUDE U ALREADY CREEPED her out with get in my car...........OYE VAY.......if a chic is interested NOTHING WILL PREVENT HER FROM inviting you in.
U had her for a moment........as people ALWAYS LOOK COOLER ONLINE.......in person.......she was on the fence YET still interested........then........YOU BLEW IT!!!!!!!
and calling or texting........the obvious.........she has OPTIONS.......why get with you.....(shes unsure) when she has other stripper chics to hang with.
If she is online in a new city..........SHE DIDNT WANT TO LEAVE HER HOUSE.........cause of all the fanmail.
LESSON LEARNED.............move on
DUDE U ALREADY CREEPED her out with get in my car...........OYE VAY.......if a chic is interested NOTHING WILL PREVENT HER FROM inviting you in.
U had her for a moment........as people ALWAYS LOOK COOLER ONLINE.......in person.......she was on the fence YET still interested........then........YOU BLEW IT!!!!!!!
and calling or texting........the obvious.........she has OPTIONS.......why get with you.....(shes unsure) when she has other stripper chics to hang with.
If she is online in a new city..........SHE DIDNT WANT TO LEAVE HER HOUSE.........cause of all the fanmail.
LESSON LEARNED.............move on
I think thats the problem with you people... You think everything is a mess-up and you "Move-On".. PERSISTANCE Goes far and gets you closer if you do it right.. You dont have to tell me to move-on.. When I really dont care about this chickCOD said:
I moved on when I broke up with my EX, This girl is just another chick I wanna bang.. Honestly, I dont care if she calls me back or texts me, It would be nice if she does, and Thats why I am here for the advice sake of some people that know the game better than me... However, I moved on before this chick even knew me...
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You got this woman on a goddam pedestal and she knows it.
For strippers and women you meet in clubs, call the next damn day so she don't forget about you!
Listen to Lynch! Women always have lots of options, no matter how old or ugly they may be. I hope you piqued her interest level high enough from the get go.
Lesson learned I hope.
Case closed.
For strippers and women you meet in clubs, call the next damn day so she don't forget about you!
Listen to Lynch! Women always have lots of options, no matter how old or ugly they may be. I hope you piqued her interest level high enough from the get go.
Lesson learned I hope.
Case closed.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
2crudedudes
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Slick101 said:
No, the problem with this forum is that people are told exactly what is happening, and because its not what they want to hear, they start talking sh1t. She's not showing ANY sort of interest.
Yes, persistence is encouraged, IN PERSON. This chick's not even addressing you face to face (or over the phone, for THAT matter).
But whatever man, I guess you know more about this than the rest of the people here. Which makes me wonder, why did you ask in the first place...
The reason I asked is because, I dont think I know everything like all these people claim they do. Some give good advice such as ROCKY... Which I wouldnt have thought of...2crudedudes said:
But honestly I think I know what I'll do.. Ill either use Rockys advice OR Something else I got planned!
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Or be strikingly handsome/ have access to drugs/ be seen getting out of a Ferrari or something along those lines. AFC's need not apply.f283000 said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.