"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dealing with Shy Woman

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How do you deal with a shy woman? I'm been on a date with this girl before, and she was so 'enclosed' that she pushed back when I tried to make a move. I'm on another date with her Thursday, but I am not sure how to deal with someone who is so shy and enclosed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It just takes time. She needs to be comfortable with you, and with shy people it takes more time.
 
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HandyAndy said:
Im in the same sort of situation except i havnt talked to her yet
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Well, I really love shy women, but then again I really don't mind talking.

Anyway, three things to keep in mind - and many of these come from learning better than a lot of the junk I learned on this board.

1.) If you want this chick to talk, you have to set her a good example. You have to talk in an interesting and interactive way when it's your turn. I'm sure you can hold a decent conversation - or else this thread wouldn't be about her, it would be about you. But yeah, I can't believe people on this board say not to talk about yourself at first. I can see don't dominate the conversation - but how are you supposed to know if you and the chick are compatible unless you see how she reacts to how you act around normal people lol.
2.) Ask her BIG questions!!! I can't believe these guys who ask the most boring, multiple choice questions. Ask "what are you dreams in life?" "What's your story" That's one I really like. Ummm, ask chicks about big decisions in your life: should I move to Montreal or just say fvck it and live like a Mexican ranchero in the Yucatan? Remember, your attitude is expect big and impressive. If you don't get it, make fun of her. Avoid being truly mean (which is NOT sexy), but remember: because your expectations are huge you're avoiding cruelty and you're safe in the realm of sexy teasing.

If you get something that fvcking impresses you, tell her you're fvcking impressed. If she says something sexy, tell her that's sexy in a serious voice.

3.) All you have to do is bring something you find sexy out of her, then tell her she's sexy for it. This is not rocket science. You can do this.

Izza
 
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