"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dealing with Shy Woman

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How do you deal with a shy woman? I'm been on a date with this girl before, and she was so 'enclosed' that she pushed back when I tried to make a move. I'm on another date with her Thursday, but I am not sure how to deal with someone who is so shy and enclosed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It just takes time. She needs to be comfortable with you, and with shy people it takes more time.
 
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HandyAndy said:
Im in the same sort of situation except i havnt talked to her yet
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Well, I really love shy women, but then again I really don't mind talking.

Anyway, three things to keep in mind - and many of these come from learning better than a lot of the junk I learned on this board.

1.) If you want this chick to talk, you have to set her a good example. You have to talk in an interesting and interactive way when it's your turn. I'm sure you can hold a decent conversation - or else this thread wouldn't be about her, it would be about you. But yeah, I can't believe people on this board say not to talk about yourself at first. I can see don't dominate the conversation - but how are you supposed to know if you and the chick are compatible unless you see how she reacts to how you act around normal people lol.
2.) Ask her BIG questions!!! I can't believe these guys who ask the most boring, multiple choice questions. Ask "what are you dreams in life?" "What's your story" That's one I really like. Ummm, ask chicks about big decisions in your life: should I move to Montreal or just say fvck it and live like a Mexican ranchero in the Yucatan? Remember, your attitude is expect big and impressive. If you don't get it, make fun of her. Avoid being truly mean (which is NOT sexy), but remember: because your expectations are huge you're avoiding cruelty and you're safe in the realm of sexy teasing.

If you get something that fvcking impresses you, tell her you're fvcking impressed. If she says something sexy, tell her that's sexy in a serious voice.

3.) All you have to do is bring something you find sexy out of her, then tell her she's sexy for it. This is not rocket science. You can do this.

Izza
 
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