HandyAndy said:
Im in the same sort of situation except i havnt talked to her yet
Well, I really love shy women, but then again I really don't mind talking.
Anyway, three things to keep in mind - and many of these come from learning better than a lot of the junk I learned on this board.
1.) If you want this chick to talk, you have to set her a good example. You have to talk in an interesting and interactive way when it's your turn. I'm sure you can hold a decent conversation - or else this thread wouldn't be about her, it would be about you. But yeah, I can't believe people on this board say not to talk about yourself at first. I can see don't dominate the conversation - but how are you supposed to know if you and the chick are compatible unless you see how she reacts to how you act around normal people lol.
2.) Ask her BIG questions!!! I can't believe these guys who ask the most boring, multiple choice questions. Ask "what are you dreams in life?" "What's your story" That's one I really like. Ummm, ask chicks about big decisions in your life: should I move to Montreal or just say fvck it and live like a Mexican ranchero in the Yucatan? Remember, your attitude is expect big and impressive. If you don't get it, make fun of her. Avoid being truly mean (which is NOT sexy), but remember: because your expectations are huge you're avoiding cruelty and you're safe in the realm of sexy teasing.
If you get something that fvcking impresses you, tell her you're fvcking impressed. If she says something sexy, tell her that's sexy in a serious voice.
3.) All you have to do is bring something you find sexy out of her, then tell her she's sexy for it. This is not rocket science. You can do this.
Izza
