I'm sure some of you guys who know what you're doing can relate. Some chicks just can't help but scream their heads off while getting ravaged. On one hand it's a turn on and a massive ego boost but on the other it can cause problems. I'm not trying to get kicked out of hotels/apartments because I'm laying the D down too well. How do you guys deal with screamers? Gags? Hand over her mouth? Pillow over her face? Just tell her to shut the fvck up lol?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dealing With Screamers
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
just tell em to shut the fvck up lol.
abe0
Senior Don Juan
Stick your c#ck in her mouth. abe
Peaks&Valleys
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Every girl is a screamer with me LOL!. Seriously though, The ones i can remember were these 3 blonde girls and 1 brunette who were LOUD!. I would just let them yell their heads off. Although i remember one girl i was fvcking and i thought she must want the whole city to hear her. I told her, "Everyone can hear you for sure, especially the apartments close by in the hallway".... She just looked back at me while i had her bent over and said "I dont care!" lol Same for a couple of girls too, They just want to scream. Unless its at the point of the exorcist, I would just go with the flow.
CrimsonPanther
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how to deal with screamers?
enjoy them
enjoy them
VikingKing
Banned
Make her scream into the pillow.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mr.Positive
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The only true 'screamer' I was with was completely insane. She was so loud I thought the cops were going to kick down my door.
I used a pillow over her face, and that worked. We didn't go out for very long. I think the screamers have some major sex issues, personally, and I would stay away from them.
I used a pillow over her face, and that worked. We didn't go out for very long. I think the screamers have some major sex issues, personally, and I would stay away from them.
Mike32ct
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Yes, they want to be heard. A lot of women are auditory (plus sometimes visual) exhibitionists*.
It's a twisted form of AW-ing.
One girl (yes another English teacher** lol) was yelling "F me! F me!" at the top of her lungs. I was really scared that hotel security would be knocking on the door. I tried to quiet her down, but to no avail.
She was the bisexual one. I mentioned her friend Sarah. Then my girl stated screaming, "F me, and F her too!***"
* I'm making up a term because I don't know what to call it.
**At least she could swear and scream using proper grammatical structures lol.
***Sarah wasn't actually with us LOL.
It's a twisted form of AW-ing.
One girl (yes another English teacher** lol) was yelling "F me! F me!" at the top of her lungs. I was really scared that hotel security would be knocking on the door. I tried to quiet her down, but to no avail.
She was the bisexual one. I mentioned her friend Sarah. Then my girl stated screaming, "F me, and F her too!***"
* I'm making up a term because I don't know what to call it.
**At least she could swear and scream using proper grammatical structures lol.
***Sarah wasn't actually with us LOL.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
My roommate had a girl loudly moaning his name the other night. I burst out laughing. Not sure if they heard.
I just choke them, which in turn makes them want to be louder. Sometimes I'll cup my hand over their mouth and tell them to shut the fvck up. Add in some dirty talk and you can keep things sexy while getting them to close their mouth. If you kind of act like a father telling their daughter to shut up, it gets them off even more. Girls are weird as fvck.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
I don't know if all of it can be blamed on AWing.
I live down a dirt road in the woods that's about a mile long (yeah, im always surprised when women from the net come and meet a stranger that lives down a dirt road in the woods!) There's no houses anywhere near me.
And i still get screamers. So unless they're AWing for the deer and foxes outside - I'ma guess some of them just actually prefer to let out their pleasure rather than keep it in. Doesn't bother me one way ot the other.
Although: i've had women that lived with their parents go out of their way to make a lot of noise when i was fvcking them. Which is kind of sick when you think about it.
I live down a dirt road in the woods that's about a mile long (yeah, im always surprised when women from the net come and meet a stranger that lives down a dirt road in the woods!) There's no houses anywhere near me.
And i still get screamers. So unless they're AWing for the deer and foxes outside - I'ma guess some of them just actually prefer to let out their pleasure rather than keep it in. Doesn't bother me one way ot the other.
Although: i've had women that lived with their parents go out of their way to make a lot of noise when i was fvcking them. Which is kind of sick when you think about it.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
I think it's meant to be active feedback to how well a man is doing.Sofomore said:
But the reasoning is synonymous as to why women fake orgasms. Women are much more likely to get pregnant when they're ovulating but also if they orgasm about a minute either side of when the man ejaculates. It has to do with the positioning of the cervix. So if she screams, the man knows(or thinks) she is enjoying it and is likely to orgasm soon. So in order to get her pregnant he needs to ejaculate within that minute mark either side to have any chance of getting her pregnant. That's why I think women fake orgasms, subconsciously it's so they have less chance of getting pregnant. Since women effectively sell sex for food, rent, warmth and whatever else, it pays for them not to get knocked up by anybody but only by the men with the best genes. So faking an orgasm can help prevent them getting pregnant from these other times. I read somewhere that when a woman has a genuine orgasm with a man, she can have sex with him a lot less often than another guy but still be a lot more like to get pregnant by the guy she has genuine orgasms by.
I know it's not really what the OP was talking about but it's just a little theory to show the bigger picture.