"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dealing with overly greedy/selfish girls who still put out easily

icantgetlaid

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The type of girl who will rarely if ever offer to pay for anything, who will act entitled to your resources (dropping hints at the type of food they want you to cook them, restaurants or gifts they like, etc), and act oblivious to the fact that they rarely if ever invest anything financially (or otherwise) into you or the relationship.

It's funny/ironic because these tend to be the neediest girls as well who complain often about the arrangement/relationship. It makes it difficult to next them because they are always a very reliable plan B/C/D and will drop anything to be in your presence/fvck regardless of the time/day/hour.

I've dated several girls like this in the past. They annoy the hell out of me but at the same time the sex is usually pretty good. Just wondering if anybody has had experience with this type of girl and what's the best way to deal with them?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheCuckSlayer

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It's up to you dude. They can only fwck you over if you let them. Just ignore them, or if it's worth it to you, fwck them and don't take them seriously otherwise.
 

daddymonsterpoodle

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Avoid them or neg the sh*t out of them. Personally I would find them too unlikable.
 
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