"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dealing with high school bytches...

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I've found it's better to simply NOT deal with them.

It seems as though 9 out of every 10 girls at my high school are uptight "I'm the fvcking queen of the castle" bytches.

Maybe it's just me, but I've resolved to forget about trying to hook up with any of these chicks because it's just pointless. They've got their little clique (group) thing going with all of their popular friends who may drink/smoke and it really disgusts me. I feel like the intelligent rebel around these idiots.

And I'm picky: the ones who don't act bytchy are sub-par for me...so this could be my own problem. Whatever.

This post is part rant, part question.

High schoolers out there:

how do you handle (if at all) bytchy/hot girls at your school?

Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Joe The Homophobe

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are they the friends of your girlfriend? (which is the case most of the time) Everyone has a girlfriend that has a bunch of b1tchy, gossipy female friends and their clique it seems.

don't socialize with them, don't be friendly with them, don't hang out with them. Don't get involved with them in any way!

why? because they don't mess with people they don't know. Maintain yourself as just 'somebody they know the name of," which will make them respect you since they don't know you too well and know little of you so they won't be messing with you. The moment you become friendly with or hang out with them is the moment you open up yourself for them to mess with you.

for example we all know a person like this in school. Be like the guy in class that you know and have talked to in class a few times but never outside of class. That guy that you know the name off but you never socialized with outside class, so this is just another person you know not a friend. The guy you would never talk trash about since you really don't know much about him so messing with him wouldn't be right. This is the way to deal with bytches, be a stranger of sorts like the guy in class in the example, just a person they know but not a friend.
 

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I'm from a very wealthy area, most of the girls around here think their **** don't stink. They have their own group of friends, and won't go outside a social circle. I stay away from these people.

Just ignore them. Period. Don't give them the time of day, and when they're rude to you, tell em to **** off. One girl told me to get out of the way yesterday, and i said "Don't talk to me like that, christ what happened to you? Did you fall asleep in a tanning bed this weekend?" She was shocked because I gave her attitude, girls like this expect people to bow down to them, because that's all people have ever done for them in the past.

Just stay away from em.
 

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Originally posted by fbplayer06
It seems as though 9 out of every 10 girls at my high school are uptight "I'm the fvcking queen of the castle" bytches.
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how do you handle (if at all) bytchy/hot girls at your school?
9/10 arent good enough?
The dicipline of a DJ and of attraction theory is all about getting that rare girl who meets your standards - making no excuses.
1/10 isn't too picky is you ask me.

How to handle the b!tchy ones? Simple - treat them like what they are - little brats...as if they were your annoying little sister. This prevents you from being bitter (which is unattractive) because you "care" about them on some level just because they are human. Doing this will establish dominance - just don't take their BS.
 

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You dont know these people.

Btw: are these all the hot girls, all the ones you want and are you trying to justify your rejection by them, by saying that you think that they are too rubbish for you. Do not take offence, but lots of guys say as a self defence mechanism that they dont like those who reject them anyway. Thinking that this invalidates their rejection, it doesnt, it makes you come off as more stupid.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by JSH
Btw: are these all the hot girls, all the ones you want and are you trying to justify your rejection by them, by saying that you think that they are too rubbish for you?
Not really. I don't mean when I say "hook up" like trying to date them or anything. It's just doing anything with them at all or just being around them. It's the attitude/vide they have. Can you feel me?
 

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Thanks guys. I agree with all of you.
 
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