"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dealing with high school bytches...

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I've found it's better to simply NOT deal with them.

It seems as though 9 out of every 10 girls at my high school are uptight "I'm the fvcking queen of the castle" bytches.

Maybe it's just me, but I've resolved to forget about trying to hook up with any of these chicks because it's just pointless. They've got their little clique (group) thing going with all of their popular friends who may drink/smoke and it really disgusts me. I feel like the intelligent rebel around these idiots.

And I'm picky: the ones who don't act bytchy are sub-par for me...so this could be my own problem. Whatever.

This post is part rant, part question.

High schoolers out there:

how do you handle (if at all) bytchy/hot girls at your school?

Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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are they the friends of your girlfriend? (which is the case most of the time) Everyone has a girlfriend that has a bunch of b1tchy, gossipy female friends and their clique it seems.

don't socialize with them, don't be friendly with them, don't hang out with them. Don't get involved with them in any way!

why? because they don't mess with people they don't know. Maintain yourself as just 'somebody they know the name of," which will make them respect you since they don't know you too well and know little of you so they won't be messing with you. The moment you become friendly with or hang out with them is the moment you open up yourself for them to mess with you.

for example we all know a person like this in school. Be like the guy in class that you know and have talked to in class a few times but never outside of class. That guy that you know the name off but you never socialized with outside class, so this is just another person you know not a friend. The guy you would never talk trash about since you really don't know much about him so messing with him wouldn't be right. This is the way to deal with bytches, be a stranger of sorts like the guy in class in the example, just a person they know but not a friend.
 

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I'm from a very wealthy area, most of the girls around here think their **** don't stink. They have their own group of friends, and won't go outside a social circle. I stay away from these people.

Just ignore them. Period. Don't give them the time of day, and when they're rude to you, tell em to **** off. One girl told me to get out of the way yesterday, and i said "Don't talk to me like that, christ what happened to you? Did you fall asleep in a tanning bed this weekend?" She was shocked because I gave her attitude, girls like this expect people to bow down to them, because that's all people have ever done for them in the past.

Just stay away from em.
 

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Originally posted by fbplayer06
It seems as though 9 out of every 10 girls at my high school are uptight "I'm the fvcking queen of the castle" bytches.
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how do you handle (if at all) bytchy/hot girls at your school?
9/10 arent good enough?
The dicipline of a DJ and of attraction theory is all about getting that rare girl who meets your standards - making no excuses.
1/10 isn't too picky is you ask me.

How to handle the b!tchy ones? Simple - treat them like what they are - little brats...as if they were your annoying little sister. This prevents you from being bitter (which is unattractive) because you "care" about them on some level just because they are human. Doing this will establish dominance - just don't take their BS.
 

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You dont know these people.

Btw: are these all the hot girls, all the ones you want and are you trying to justify your rejection by them, by saying that you think that they are too rubbish for you. Do not take offence, but lots of guys say as a self defence mechanism that they dont like those who reject them anyway. Thinking that this invalidates their rejection, it doesnt, it makes you come off as more stupid.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by JSH
Btw: are these all the hot girls, all the ones you want and are you trying to justify your rejection by them, by saying that you think that they are too rubbish for you?
Not really. I don't mean when I say "hook up" like trying to date them or anything. It's just doing anything with them at all or just being around them. It's the attitude/vide they have. Can you feel me?
 

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Thanks guys. I agree with all of you.
 
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