"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dealing With Flirts

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This chick in my maths class was like flirting with me, picking up my ruler and **** for me. But today shes like not talking with me much, but instead my mate and flirting with him. Im lost, i duno what to do, is she playing hard to get and a flirt. How do i approach this chick and get her in the sack, keeping in mind shes been asked out like 5 times and all dudes have been rejected. How do i seperate myself from everyone else who wants her, and play with her and her flirting ways.
Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well first i could give the everfamous tip "read the bible" but you really need to stop freaking out when some girl flirts with you. Its just flirting.

Next time this bicch talks to you, throw in some neghits, knock her down from that pedistal. Then pull away, and see if she initiates more convo's.

I could go on for hours so its better that you read more in the bible and all of sosuave.
 

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She flirts, you flirt back. Simple. Just remember that there is nothing in her flirting, have fun!

~ivan
 

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I could tell you how to handle attention wh0res my friend. But they are not a creature you want to mess with if youre inexperienced.

Forget about the attention wh0re for now.
 

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One of the basic principles of this site says that you shouldn't have to treat different girls differently. In doing so, you're giving up on being the prize, and if you had enough to offer you wouldn't need to act differently.

People say be yourself. I say sure, as long as you are developing into what you want to become. Acting is faking and it will get you no where. You're obviously having trouble with some girls so you need to focus on yourself rather than them. If you do things right, eventually you won't need a strategy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shes now decided to sit next to me in maths now, saw it coming. She always touches me and ****, i duno if shes jsut flirting or she wants me. Ill just ask her for her number which im sure she will give me. As for then i duno ;o
I cant tell if she sees me as a friend or more :eek:
 

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She is probably just one of those touchy girls. There is always some girl in your school that does that. Try for her number if you want, just realize what kind of girl she is.
 

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could be wrong but:

1) Flirts with you, you don't respond welll
2) She flirts with your friend to make you jealous
3) She gives up on that cuz u do nothing again
4) She gets even closer to you, and you do nothing


Am I right so far? I see a trend. If she's a flirt, then get better by flirting with her. A lot of us Dj's classifly as flirts too, so if no-one talked to flirts...
 
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