darksprezzatura
Master Don Juan
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Imagine you are with a woman you find attractive, maybe you took her number, maybe you're already sleeping with her, but it's quickly becoming a headache.
- She's cancelling dates with reschedules
- She still might be reinitiating conversation
- She might not be offering a reschedule
- It SEEMS like she's making "genuine" excuses
- Your gut makes you uneasy, yet you continue to make excuses FOR HER
This dynamic of her being scarce flips the power dynamic and subconsciously makes you "chase her".
Your ego is deluding you into thinking she's interested in you.
1) The famous Brad Pitt frame:
Imagine if you are Brad Pitt, do you think the women who are making things difficult for you will behave the same way?
Though you aren't Brad Pitt, interested women will not make it difficult for you.
2) Repeat after me:
-I will have my time respected.
-I will have my needs met.
-I want to be treated fairly.
-I want a woman who will improve the quality of my life not lower it by giving me headaches.
-I only want to hang out with women who will invest back equally if not more so, and are interested in me.
The best way to deal with this is: WALK AWAY
1) Delete her number and Don't contact her again.
2) STOP making excuses FOR HER.
3) There are hundreds of women who will not make your life hard, don't waste your time with this one.
4) Your body might punish you for losing out on a potential or current source of sex, go through this if it's happening for the first time, it gets easier and you grow as a person.
5) Work on your hobbies and career, keep talking to new women and workout.
"Find a woman who can make your **** hard, not your life"
- She's cancelling dates with reschedules
- She still might be reinitiating conversation
- She might not be offering a reschedule
- It SEEMS like she's making "genuine" excuses
- Your gut makes you uneasy, yet you continue to make excuses FOR HER
This dynamic of her being scarce flips the power dynamic and subconsciously makes you "chase her".
Your ego is deluding you into thinking she's interested in you.
1) The famous Brad Pitt frame:
Imagine if you are Brad Pitt, do you think the women who are making things difficult for you will behave the same way?
Though you aren't Brad Pitt, interested women will not make it difficult for you.
2) Repeat after me:
-I will have my time respected.
-I will have my needs met.
-I want to be treated fairly.
-I want a woman who will improve the quality of my life not lower it by giving me headaches.
-I only want to hang out with women who will invest back equally if not more so, and are interested in me.
The best way to deal with this is: WALK AWAY
1) Delete her number and Don't contact her again.
2) STOP making excuses FOR HER.
3) There are hundreds of women who will not make your life hard, don't waste your time with this one.
4) Your body might punish you for losing out on a potential or current source of sex, go through this if it's happening for the first time, it gets easier and you grow as a person.
5) Work on your hobbies and career, keep talking to new women and workout.
"Find a woman who can make your **** hard, not your life"