Just off the phone with a girl I'd been seeing for a few months. Realized it wasn't going anywhere, out of the blue she demanded to know where we were headed, i was honest with her and hoped she'd be cool.
Wrong, of course. Over the past couple of weeks she's just been calling me and accusing me of being cold and uncaring and etc. etc. while she seemed on the verge of tears.
The thing is, while I do try to keep myself from getting oneitis and being emotionally needy, when i break up with girls and they cry and carry on, it really gets to me. On the one hand I'm annoyed with them for being so fragile, but I really do feel bad about causing other people pain.
Is this just a sign of a normally compassionate human being or is it just their last attempt to hurt me on the way out, so at least I'll suffer too?
Wrong, of course. Over the past couple of weeks she's just been calling me and accusing me of being cold and uncaring and etc. etc. while she seemed on the verge of tears.
The thing is, while I do try to keep myself from getting oneitis and being emotionally needy, when i break up with girls and they cry and carry on, it really gets to me. On the one hand I'm annoyed with them for being so fragile, but I really do feel bad about causing other people pain.
Is this just a sign of a normally compassionate human being or is it just their last attempt to hurt me on the way out, so at least I'll suffer too?