"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dealing with competition at parties?

the pokemaster

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Has anyone here ever been to a party with friends who are better looking than you. Among us its kind of like a constant competition to see who can get with the most girls.
(I think this is good as it can only make u better at linking girls.)

We all say this isn't a problem. Looks don't really matter once you meet this site. But i've got a problem.

For the past month or more ive been using the ****y and Funny attitude towards girls at parties. This involves teasing them.

My friends who are better looking than me have got with more girls than me (making them popular), kiss girls asses when they are at parties to get with them. I used to copy them and also kiss there asses, i then realised that i did not have the key in making this strategy work. LOOKS.

So now im on the ****y and funny stuff. Im talking to a HB8 and ive got my hand round her waist and shes got her arm round mine. Im leaning in. Im stroking her, eye contact and teasing lol. Yeah so this girl is diggin me.

My better looking friends (who have are quite desired by girls because of popularity and looks) come along and start kissing her ass and so on.

This girl knows they all want her. They are all betterlooking than me. To her friends she would look stupid choosing me over them even if she is attracted to me more.

This kinda makes me think shes thinking:

>this guy im holding is cool and i really like him even tho hes teasing me. my friends and i are always talking about this guys friends but never him. his friends want me. for popularity ill get with them instead of this one im holding right now. i best get away from him!

She ends up getting with my better looking friend instead of me. She ends seeing my friend (for you could say, popularity) and i vanish out the picture. Still without my share of booty.

I kinda feel like the guy who gets his foot in the door only to have his toe broken by it bein slammed shut.:confused:

Should i stop going to parties with betterlooking guys no matter how much they are my friends?

Elti Boi
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hungry_american

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yeah

I have been there also, it is so annoying. :( Or even worse when I start to get with a girl, my friends tell them something in my past or make fun of me so the girl stops diggin me. :mad:
 

the pokemaster

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yeah...

dat happens to me sometimes also. sometimes i try to hide from them lol. get them in a room quick innit?

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Patrick124

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If you're macking a girl and your friend comes over and purposely games her your friends are not friends at all.
 

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I never viewed it that way. I think I am going to set things straight. I will tell them to kiss my :moon: if they dont stop also taking my game. Wingmen are there to help not to **** block eh.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Patrick124
If you're macking a girl and your friend comes over and purposely games her your friends are not friends at all.
Said it perfectly.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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guess what ****y does not work its great to throw in a line FROM TIME TO TIME it shows you are not insecure but if its ot often then they get sick of it, although funny is good and other then when you need to be serious you should be funny.
 
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