"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dealing with an aggressive hot girl at a campout

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Hopefully this makes sense, I'm writing at 3AM after drinking a bit.

There's this girl who I've went to school with for the last 3 years. She's uber hot, but I haven't really been interested in her at all that much. Too busy being a frigging genius at school.

Anyways, fast forward, today/last night was grad camp-out (very few people actually stayed to camp out) I was sitting with my friends when all of a sudden uber hot girl comes up and pushes me over so I'm on my back and then (lightly) slaps me across the face and goes on about how rude I am (this is totally random, I didn't initiate or provoke anyone, and although I was pretty rude to her for the whole year, I hardly talked to her that day or for about the whole week before).

So basically I'm on the ground on my back (willingly, not making any attempt to get up) with this hot girl with each of her feet beside my hips (so she's standing right over my pelvis pretty much). Halfway through her rant, I thought about getting up, telling her to stfu and dismissing her, but I was half drunk and lazy and the view was too nice.

So I'm basically just wondering if I should have gotten up and put her in her place instead of just lying on the ground and enjoying the view. Was I giving up power to her in not doing so? Just fyi, I'm not really interested in her, just wondering if I shoulda manned up and not take her crap. My friends were there and I didn't really wanna come off looking like an ******* for being mean.

Or if I'm just looking far too much into it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CompleteShift said:
I was sitting with my friends when all of a sudden uber hot girl comes up and pushes me over so I'm on my back and then (lightly) slaps me across the face and goes on about how rude I am (this is totally random, I didn't initiate or provoke anyone, and although I was pretty rude to her for the whole year, I hardly talked to her that day or for about the whole week before).

So basically I'm on the ground on my back (willingly, not making any attempt to get up) with this hot girl with each of her feet beside my hips (so she's standing right over my pelvis pretty much). Halfway through her rant, I thought about getting up, telling her to stfu and dismissing her, but I was half drunk and lazy and the view was too nice.
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You should said something like 'ok missy I've had just enough of your nonsense' and wrestled her to the ground and tortured her with some slap and tickle. This is what she wanted, trust me. As it is you kinda blew it.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=946079#post946079
 
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I would've simply just smiled at her. She'll most likely wonder what you're smiling at. Then just comment on the nice view. It'll let her know that you aren't really giving a sh*t about what shes saying.
 
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LOL! Don't get up and tell her to stfu. Why would you do that?

You don't get what she was really doing?

Wow.. see.. this is common sense that guys who would have never come on this site would understand right away.

Nighthawk is on it %100. You don't need to come on this site to know that. If she really didn't like you she would not have jumped on you in the first place, she would of pretended you didn't exist.

You should have grabbed her and play fight with her. She would have wanted it so bad after that.

She was never giving you crap, she was giving a HUGE HUGE HUGE indication of interest there and you ****ed it up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dannowillbookem said:
hahaha. get up and tell her to stfu. thats would be funny.
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It would be hilarious. :crackup:

But I don't think that's what he would really want.
 
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You just missed a golden opportunity of a C&F! I would have said...

- (Depending on the color of her undies) Man BLUE is my favorite color!
- You know there's otherways to show me your panties? smile
- Dang you like to play rough don't you? :p wink

DO NOT get mad at chicks they hate it and they end up throwing a fit! It's better for you to get up and push her back onto the ground than telling her to STFU.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would have said "Why are you so mad? Did we have sex or something?"
 
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Aggressive? Knock her ass out.
 
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I would have picked her up and held her upside down/oiver my shoulder or something.
 
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