"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dealing With A Tease

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I met this girl, and she's cool and all... About an HB 7, and she admits to being a tease.

We talk about sex all the time. She talks about having me in her bed. She said she has never had sex before, and she wears one of those promise rings. I asked her, "So you are not gonna have sex until you are married? That's kinda wierd... But I respect that... It's different lol" and she told me, "Well maybe when I want to have sex or when I know I'm in love."

I like a challenge and the best way I see to approach this is to hide signs of the effects of her teasing. THen again I don't have much experience with women who are a tease.

ANyone have any advice on this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Teasing by using sexuality is just another s#it test....and the rule for those is: don't react. Sometimes a girl will be overtly sexually flirtatious with a guy and the guy will think it's ok to pursue b/c he has it in the bag...this is wrong because it plays into her frame and gives her the power.

In your situation, it may be best to let this one go and don't push the sex issue...she's a nice girl with a promise ring, and sometimes it just ain't worth the chase! Oddly enough, the minute you stop acting interested in her sexually is probably the moment that she considers you for such an endeavor...the joys of psychology...
 
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Jeffst1980 said:
Teasing by using sexuality is just another s#it test....and the rule for those is: don't react. Sometimes a girl will be overtly sexually flirtatious with a guy and the guy will think it's ok to pursue b/c he has it in the bag...this is wrong because it plays into her frame and gives her the power.

In your situation, it may be best to let this one go and don't push the sex issue...she's a nice girl with a promise ring, and sometimes it just ain't worth the chase! Oddly enough, the minute you stop acting interested in her sexually is probably the moment that she considers you for such an endeavor...the joys of psychology...
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I like your view on things man!

Is there anyone else that has succeeding in winning over a girl like this? SHe's already attracted to me physically.. We both think we're attractive.. lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If a girl is going to talk about sex to me. I pursue as long as i see fit. After all it's the perfect opportunity for me to talk dirty to her and 90% of the time it WORKS. Just do it in a way where you don't make her feel like a SLUT.

Another thing i always do is to make sure that when we talk about sex, it's about how badly she WANTS to do it WITH ME. Not the other way around. Yes, i'm a guy and YES we do think about SEX 120 hours a day. But it doesn't necessarily mean that I'm going to bone her. She isn't the only vagina in the world so i won't treat her like she's the only vagina in the world. There ARE others.
 
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