"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dealing with a Drama Queen, how?

Mafia80

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Whatup guys? I am going with a girl right now, super hot, like around 8 or 9. I dig her but damn, she is such a drama queen. The other night, we missed a movie because it was packed and there were no tickets, for the next few hours, she was a total *****, not talking, sitting in the corner so to speak.
She pulls this **** quite often and its getting freaking annoying. The thing is when she isnt doing this ****, I really like her. So what is the best way to deal with this crap? Thanks

Peace
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't let her get away with this childish stuff. If she wants to act like a little girl than you have to treat her like one. What do you do when she pulls this buisness, do you get quiet and just let her have her way?
 
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1. You created this monster. You shoulda put your foot down the first time she pulled this shyt. Now if you were a super sports star she wouldn't be trying this lame shyt on you. She would act right.

2. Now your stuck.

3. What you can try to do is have a talk with her and tell her how you feel, and if it happens again your walking off.

4. Now your problem is that you put all of your eggs into one basket. Your putting your hopes and happiness into the hands of :

a) a woman to begin with

b) this woman

This is your lesson to learn. You should never stand for bad behavior from a insecure spoiled brat. From anyone for that matter. I personally think you need to drop kick the bytch outta the door next time.

Be a man and stand up for yourself.
 

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I wouldn't recomend talkin to her bout it. IMO that would just acknoledge and warant her behaviour. What I would do and did in a situation like this was. If you with her ask her whats wrong and if she feelin alright and if she dosn't give u a favourable response srug your shoulders and dust her off for the rest of the night. If she see's your not getting your attention doing her ****, by the end off the night she would cool off. I did this with a girl once and by the end of the night she was back normal. Just act normal as if nothing is happening.
 

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Good advice guys, thanks.......yeah I should have stopped this **** the first time she did it. Initially I thought it was PMS or job stress that caused this ****, but now it seems like a permanent side of her. I'm gonna put my foot down the next time for sure. Either way, lesson learned! I wont make this mistake again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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