Dealing with 2nd date flake

[FlipM0de]

First date was pretty good, called her after 2 days to set up the a second and got canceled a few hours before, I didn't even bothered texting back and went out with my friends for a drink.

A week past since the first date.

I think about calling her in a few days like nothing happened without suggesting another date just to feel the vibe.

How do you usually handle flakes without killing the momentum?

 

[backseatjuan]

Maybe she had to cancel something very important come up. Flake is when no cancelation notice is given, that's rejection. Of course reschudle!

 

[Kbomb]

First date was pretty good, called her after 2 days to set up the a second and got canceled a few hours before, I didn't even bothered texting back and went out with my friends for a drink.

A week past since the first date.

I think about calling her in a few days like nothing happened without suggesting another date just to feel the vibe.

How do you usually handle flakes without killing the momentum?

a week passed and she hasn't said anything might be a sign it's time to next her. I might be wrong though.

 

[FlipM0de]

Explain what the cancellation said. How it was done. Like another poster said, a cancellation can be ok, life happens.

I called her on Thursday and we agreed to set a date to Friday and if something will come up we'll let each other know. We didn't set any exact time and decided to talk on Friday. Around 6PM she texted me saying "Meeting today isn't working so well for me..."

 

[backseatjuan]

So today is Monday, give her a call to feel things then think quick. It's best to date when it's dark, more action. If she sounds fun just say you'll pick her up in 40 minutes.